Timeless Tales: Teaching Empathy, Hope, and Morality Through Classic Stories
By Sherry Martin
"He said, 'You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t happen to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.'"
No, this isn’t a description of a homeschool mom on a warm May afternoon—but it could be. This is a foundational truth about love, being loved, and becoming Real. Many homeschool moms know the feeling of being worn down by love. There were many afternoons I called myself "The Velveteen Rabbit." This is one of the powerful truths captured in Margery Williams' The Velveteen Rabbit.
Authors of old had a way of distilling profound truths through endearing characters and rich symbolism. Their stories teach children that while life can be difficult, there is always hope.
Here are three foundational truths children can learn from timeless tales:
1. Empathy
The Ugly Duckling by Hans Christian Andersen addresses our need to belong and the universal pain we feel when we’re not accepted. It reminds us not to let others define us. While it’s not easy, coming out of painful experiences teaches us how to treat those who are different. Use this story as a springboard to discuss empathy with your children.
2. Right from Wrong
The simple Celtic tale The Three Little Pigs, written by Joseph Jacobs, illustrates the importance of wise investment of time and resources. The first two pigs, driven by greed and short-sightedness, built weak houses. The third pig, however, built his house from strong, costly bricks. His diligence saved them all, and his brothers learned the value of foresight and good judgment. These tales offer a wealth of lessons on the consequences of choices—rich material for teaching children the outcomes of right and wrong decisions.
3. Hope
Hope is the most vital ingredient in these stories. Vision, the power to anticipate what may come, breathes life into these tales. As Proverbs 29:18 says, "Where there is no vision, the people perish." Many fables offer the hope of better times or dreams fulfilled.
A Favorite Tale
One of my personal favorites is Beauty and the Beast, adapted from the 18th-century fairy tale by Jeanne-Marie Leprince de Beaumont. Belle, full of hope, longs for a life filled with love, literature, and adventure, and she is willing to wait for what she desires. In contrast, the Beast, having lost hope, is redeemed through trust, acceptance, and selfless love. Their story reminds us that hope can be renewed, and even the darkest situations can lead to redemption.
A Brighter Future
Many children today have their hopes and dreams dashed by the harsh realities of our modern world. Films, books, and television often tell dark, cynical stories that blur the lines between heroes and villains. Children’s stories should not only entertain but teach valuable character lessons, distinguish right from wrong, and, most importantly, offer hope.
As C.S. Lewis said,
“Since it is so likely that children will meet cruel enemies, let them at least have heard of brave knights and heroic courage. Otherwise, you are making their destiny not brighter but darker.”