Faith, Family, and Homeschooling: Navigating Medical Challenges with Grace
By Julie Grosz, M.Ed., with Heart of Dakota Curriculum
Do you have a medical challenge or two in your life right now? If you do, please know you are not alone! More than ever, it seems medical challenges are mounting. Over the past 20 years of homeschooling my three sons, we’ve faced many medical hurdles. Some have lingered, while others, praise God, have not. Through it all, faith, family, and homeschooling have been the steady constants that brought normalcy amid the abnormality of medical trials.
From high-risk pregnancies and months of bed rest to NICU stays, physical therapies, and surgeries, our list of medical issues seems endless. I’ve helped care for family members through serious conditions, from my dad’s pancreatic cancer to my husband’s COVID, and the challenges have been relentless. But through faith and family, we’ve found strength, resilience, and hope.
Facing Your Own Medical Challenges
Many of you have your own stories of medical challenges. Some may have lingered, while others have resolved. Whether you’ve been the patient or caregiver, you know both roles present unique difficulties. Yet, no matter your circumstances, faith, family, and homeschooling can be your anchor in the storm. Even on the worst days, these can hold you steady until the storm passes.
Leaning on Faith in Medical Challenges
In the midst of medical challenges, leaning on your faith is crucial. I learned this from my dad, who faced multiple serious health problems but remained a picture of strength to those around him. Even though his medical history included an abdominal aneurysm, blood clots, heart attack, and pancreatic cancer, we always saw him as a strong and healthy man. How? His faith made him resilient. Despite his suffering, he didn’t dwell on his challenges, and his joy in the Lord remained evident. He encouraged others, even when they came to comfort him during his illness. When medical challenges seem overwhelming, lean on your faith, talk to God, and trust that He will carry you through the storm.
Leaning on Family in Medical Challenges
Family can be a vital source of support during medical trials. My family has been there for me in countless ways, from my husband preparing meals while I was on bed rest to my sister accompanying me to doctor appointments. My parents cared for my premature baby when I was too weak, and even my sons stepped up, offering food, blankets, and love as I recovered from surgery. We’ve leaned on each other through many difficult times, and I’ve returned the favor by supporting them in their challenges.
Don’t hesitate to lean on your family and be there for them in return. Ask for help when you need it, whether it’s a meal, a kind word, or simply a listening ear. Family bonds grow stronger through these experiences, and there’s no shame in making or fulfilling unusual requests. Family helps without judgment.
Leaning on Homeschooling in Medical Challenges
Homeschooling can provide much-needed stability during medical trials. Even when bedridden, you can continue to homeschool by adapting lessons to your circumstances. Have the children bring their books to you, or move to them if needed. Make homeschooling mobile with backpacks or totes, and be creative in finding spaces to teach, even during medical appointments.
When one of my sons needed extensive therapy, I brought my other children along and homeschooled them in waiting rooms and even therapy rooms. Homeschooling can be flexible and portable, allowing you to maintain a sense of normalcy amidst the chaos. Even if you only have a couple of good hours each day, use that time to homeschool consistently. Establish a routine that allows you to move through subjects in a steady, manageable way. It may not look perfect, but it will keep you grounded.
In Closing
If you’re navigating medical challenges, take heart—you are not alone. Lean on your faith, your family, and your homeschooling. Be generous with grace, for yourself and others. Looking back, I see God’s hand in all we’ve been through. I rest in His promise that His plan is good, even when life seems hard. Medical challenges will come and go, and even the ones that linger have moments of respite. Celebrate the calm when it comes, and trust that the storm won’t last forever. God is with you in the midst of it all, and His love will carry you through.
In Christ,
Julie
Julie Grosz, M.Ed., is a placement specialist and professional blogger for Heart of Dakota. A former public school teacher, she and her husband have homeschooled their three sons in South Dakota. Julie has been supporting Heart of Dakota families for 20 years and finds great joy in homeschooling and writing.