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Supporting Dyslexic Learners: Practical Tips and the Orton-Gillingham Approach
by Dr. Rebecka Spencer, with Cherish Children Ministries "Can you please just tell me which curriculum to use for my dyslexic learner?" "I've tried multiple curricula, and nothing seems to be working." These are common questions we receive at Cherish Children Ministries from both homeschooling parents and classroom teachers. While the Orton-Gillingham (OG) approach is one of the most popular methods for teaching dyslexic learners, it's important to know that you may not need an entirely new curriculum to start seeing results. Instead, focusing on key elements—structured learning, sequential skill-building, cumulative lessons, explicit instruction, multisensory opportunities, and systematic phonics—can make a big difference. Many curricula already include both phonics and sight word components. If yours isn’t explicitly OG-based, you can still create a multisensory experience by incorporating action-oriented activities that use auditory, visual, and tactile-kinesthetic reinforcement. Integrating spelling practice with reading instruction is another critical part of the OG approach. The OG method is built on the concept that kids learn and master language through three neurological pathways: visual processing, auditory processing, and tactile processing. Visual and auditory pathways are essential for reading, while tactile processing supports handwriting and other fine motor skills. Many curricula incorporate aspects of the OG method, often without highlighting it explicitly. As long as the curriculum includes these three pathways and utilizes systematic phonics and multisensory activities, it can support dyslexic learners. Brain Processes and Dyslexia For dyslexic learners, challenges with visual processing, fixation, and smooth pursuit (slow tracking) can impact their reading. Dyslexic children often struggle to recognize visual shapes, patterns, and may have difficulty with fixation—maintaining focus on a single point. For example, some may "skip" letters or words when reading because their eyes struggle to track smoothly across a page. You can help by doing simple eye-tracking exercises at home. Try attaching a sticker to the end of a pencil or ruler and ask your child to watch it as you move it slowly left to right. With practice, this can improve eye tracking and help reduce those small skips that interrupt reading flow. Brain Development and Dyslexia The belief that brain capabilities are set at birth is outdated. Babies are born with around 100 billion brain cells (neurons), but the brain isn’t fully developed at birth. Neurons grow, connect, and communicate with each other throughout our lives. This connectivity, driven by synapses, supports both mental and physical development. Every important developmental milestone—from recognizing a smile to walking—is linked to these neural connections. Research shows that intensive reading instruction can even help the brain rewire itself. For instance, a study with children aged eight to ten found that 100 hours of intensive reading practice significantly improved white matter, the brain tissue that transfers signals between processing areas. This underscores why dyslexic learners can benefit from structured, intensive learning strategies. Auditory Processing Deficits in Dyslexic Learners Dyslexic learners often struggle with auditory processing, especially with phonics. They may find it difficult to differentiate sounds like b and p. Exercises focused on sound awareness and auditory processing can greatly improve reading and writing skills. A study involving 682 children with dyslexia and auditory processing disorders showed remarkable improvements in reading skills after targeted exercises to strengthen weak brain areas. When they incorporated eye exercises, spelling errors dropped by 40%, and children made half as many mistakes after just three to six weeks. Final Thoughts Always remember, you know your child best. Trust your instincts, and seek out specialists if further modifications or testing are needed. You are your child's best advocate, and your dedication will make all the difference in helping them thrive.
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Uncovering the Roots of Dyslexia: A NeuroDevelopmental Approach to Addressing Core Challenges
By Jan Bedell, Ph.D., Master NeuroDevelopmentalist, President of Brain Sprints, and SPED Homeschool Board Member Dyslexia has puzzled parents, educators, and those diagnosed with it for years. Children with dyslexia often feel they are “not very smart” because they struggle to read like their peers. Parents may wonder if their child is trying hard enough, knowing they have the intelligence to succeed. Teachers, managing a classroom full of students, may feel helpless when a bright child struggles to keep up with academic demands. When seeking information on dyslexia, typical internet searches yield definitions such as: Statistic Overview: Approximately 15% of people have dyslexia, amounting to over 30 million adults in the United States, about 6 million in the United Kingdom, and 3 million in Canada. Many are unaware they have it. Mayo Clinic: "Dyslexia is a learning disorder involving difficulty reading due to problems identifying speech sounds and learning how they relate to letters and words (decoding)." Yale University: "Dyslexia is an unexpected difficulty in reading in an individual who has the intelligence to be a much better reader." National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke: Dyslexia is characterized by difficulty with phonological processing, spelling, and/or rapid visual-verbal responding, with the presentation varying from person to person. A Bit of Dyslexia History Samuel Orton, the first to identify dyslexia, documented a broader range of symptoms beyond reading difficulties. His observations included: Balance issues Eye tracking and convergence challenges Coordination difficulties Cross-dominance (using the opposite eye or ear from the dominant hand) Poor phonemic awareness Spelling struggles Despite the extensive list of challenges Orton noted, the current U.S. education system typically addresses dyslexia with programs focusing on phonics-based reading remediation and symptom compensation. For adults, few resources exist beyond coping strategies. A NeuroDevelopmental Perspective on Dyslexia The NeuroDevelopmental (ND) approach asks: What is causing these persistent challenges? Why has the original understanding of dyslexia’s complexities been reduced to a phonics-based approach? Traditional approaches often focus solely on phonics, whereas neurodevelopmentalists understand that human function is guided by brain organization and development. Our experience with individuals with dyslexia has shown that intensive, individualized brain stimulation can achieve significantly different results than a traditional two-year phonics program, where individuals often end up managing residual struggles for life. The ND approach assesses the whole child to identify what might be causing specific functional issues. Common factors we consider include: Are the eyes working together correctly, or are letters overlapping? Is central detail vision working optimally, or do small words and punctuation seem to vanish? Is the child’s auditory short-term memory robust enough to support phonics learning? Are lower brain levels organized to enable smooth information flow between brain hemispheres? Is information stored inconsistently, leading to unreliable recall? For the child and parent, these gaps can be frustrating. A parent might think a child understands a concept, only to see it forgotten the next day. The child, in turn, may be perplexed by their inconsistent recall. Empowering Parents through Brain Development Our experience shows that when parents are equipped with the right brain-stimulating strategies, children can gain a year or more in reading and math in just four months—dramatically different from the common experience of falling further behind. Parents are key to this change! You don’t need to commute for expensive therapy; ND techniques can be seamlessly integrated into your homeschool routine for powerful results. For more information or a free consultation, visit www.BrainSprints.com.
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Happy Mothering: Embracing God’s Love and Navigating the Chaos of Your Calling
Welcome to another episode of Empowering Homeschool Conversations! Join host Peggy Ployhar, the Founder and CEO of SPED Homeschool, as she welcomes two incredible guests: Tricia Goyer and Sherri Seligson, MEd, for an inspiring conversation on "Happy Mothering: Embracing God’s Love and Navigating the Chaos of Your Calling." In this episode, Peggy, Tricia, and Sherri dive into how mothers can embrace the love and grace of God while finding joy amidst the chaos of motherhood. Tricia Goyer, a homeschooling mom, author, and speaker, and Sherri Seligson, a homeschool science expert and mother of four, share practical insights, faith-filled encouragement, and personal experiences to help you navigate the challenges of motherhood with purpose and peace. Whether you're juggling homeschooling, household responsibilities, or personal challenges, this conversation will equip you with wisdom and hope for your motherhood journey. To join in the after-show conversation, join the Empowering Homeschool Conversations Q&A group here: https://www.spedhomeschool.com/groups/tuesday-empowering-conversations *You must have a Navigator Membership or higher on Homeschool Heroes to be part of this group. To get a membership or upgrade your membership, visit: https://www.spedhomeschool.com/membership To pre-order Tricia and Sherri's new book, Wonders of the Ocean Realm, visit:https://www.tyndale.com/p/wonders-of-the-ocean-realm/9781496486462 To connect with Tricia, visit: https://triciagoyer.com/ To connect with Sherri, visit: https://www.sherriseligson.com/ Viewers like you funded similar episodes, and other free resources from SPED Homeschool. To learn how you can support the nonprofit work of SPED Homeschool and this broadcast, visit https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ To find out more about SPED Homeschool, visit our website at https://spedhomeschool.com/ To learn about the other Empowering Homeschool Conversations Co-Hosts and their resources, visit: https://annieyorty.com/ https://www.leilanimelendez.com/ https://elarplearning.com/ https://solimaracademy.com/ Join our mission to empower homeschool families! https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ Be sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell, so you never miss an episode! Join our mission to empower homeschool families!:  https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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Starting Homeschooling with Confidence: Your “For Now Plan” for Pre-K and Kindergarten
by Nancy van Loggerenberg It feels like just yesterday your child was born, and today they’re getting ready to begin pre-K or Kindergarten! If your child has special needs or has taken a bit longer to reach typical developmental milestones, you may know they could struggle in a traditional school setting. As the school year approaches, you’ve decided to homeschool—but how do you start homeschooling a child who may need extra support? Take a deep breath, remind yourself, “I’ve got this,” and read on for practical steps to start your homeschool journey with confidence. Know Your Homeschool Law If required by your state, the first step is to submit a letter of intent to homeschool. Unsure about your state’s requirements? You can find a guide on the HSLDA website to help you understand your state’s homeschool laws. Create a “For Now Plan” Next, decide what kind of homeschool approach fits your family’s needs by creating what I call a “For Now Plan.” This is a flexible outline of what you envision for your family’s homeschool, and it’s simple to create: Define Your Homeschool Vision. On a piece of paper, write a one-sentence vision for your homeschool. For example: “Our homeschool Kindergarten will meet five days a week, with a focus on reading and math, plus lots of time for art, games, and outdoor learning.” Write Your “Why.” Next, explain why you want your homeschool to look this way. For example: “My WHY is because I know ‘Tim’ will engage and focus best with short lessons. He loves being outside, and reading and math are the subjects I feel most comfortable teaching right now.” Choose Your Top 3 Resources Do some quick research to select the top three resources you’d like to use as part of your “For Now Plan.” The SPED Homeschool website, Facebook groups, and Pinterest boards are great places for ideas. Example resources could include your public library, subscription boxes, and ABC Mouse. Identify Your Support Networks Once you’ve chosen resources, list three support networks you can turn to for guidance and new ideas. Support might come from a homeschool mentor, your local school, a church community, Facebook groups, a private tutor, or a homeschooling consultant. These networks may evolve over time, but they’ll be invaluable as you start your journey. Plan Your First Action Steps It’s time to put your resources and support networks into action with “3 Action Steps.” For example: Visit the library for books to support your themes Choose a theme for the first two weeks Look at what other parents are doing for their homeschool Kindergarten curriculum in your Facebook group Adjust and Repeat as Needed When you encounter new challenges or things feel overwhelming, return to this process and create a new “For Now Plan.” Some parents find that once they start homeschooling, they need to adjust expectations or outsource specific subjects, like reading, to a tutor for extra support. Try It Yourself! Are you ready to give the “For Now Plan” a try? Imagining a structured yet flexible homeschool may sound challenging, but with the right mindset, it’s possible to create a fulfilling learning experience for your child. If you’re curious about what kindergarten homeschooling could look like with a qualified teacher or tutor, I’d be happy to guide you! Visit my website—Ms. Nancy, Online Elementary Tutor—and sign up for my kindergarten webinar to discover tools that will revolutionize your child’s learning journey. Wherever you are in the process, enjoy this unique journey and the gift of teaching your child at home. Remember, homeschooling can be both stress-free and messy—it’s all part of the beautiful process!
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Why a Literature-Based Curriculum is Perfect for Struggling Learner Homeschooling Families
By Sonlight Curriculum Company If you asked special needs families about the most essential aspect of homeschooling, you'd likely find a common theme: flexibility. Given the unique challenges these families face, a literature-based homeschool curriculum—the most adaptable of all approaches—makes perfect sense. 1. Literature-Based Learning Allows Flexibility in Environment Literature-based education makes learning feel more natural. Rather than requiring children to sit at a desk for extended periods, they have the freedom to draw, build, or even stretch out on the couch while they learn. For example, my oldest son, who struggled with dysgraphia, found writing difficult, despite receiving support from an occupational therapist. However, he discovered a love for drawing while I read aloud, allowing him to work on fine motor skills without feeling pressured. Today, you’d never know he struggled early on, and I credit Sonlight’s read-alouds with his growth. This learning style also allows us to change our setting as needed. We can take our reading outside on sunny days, which can be particularly beneficial for sensory-seeking kids. Over the years, our classrooms have included the grass, swings, and even the car, transforming any space into a learning environment. 2. Literature-Based Learning Allows Flexibility in Format A literature-based approach relies on discussion rather than worksheets, making subjects like science and history more accessible for kids who struggle with paperwork. Sonlight, for example, includes minimal testing. Instead, kids narrate back what they've learned, providing natural, stress-free assessment. In our homeschool, we have: Explored geography by mapping story locations Learned science through living books and hands-on experiments Studied history through engaging stories based on real events For children who dislike or struggle with traditional assessments, this approach can make learning far more enjoyable. 3. Literature-Based Learning Accommodates Diverse Learning Styles For the Writer: Encourage note-taking or doodling during reading time. For the Builder: Let them work with blocks or do hands-on activities. A literature-based approach gives children the freedom to be themselves, which is vital for special needs students. They can learn in a way that aligns with their strengths and preferences, without the constraints of a rigid learning format. 4. Literature-Based Learning Offers Flexibility of Choice One of the best aspects of literature-based learning is the choices available. Sonlight, for instance, provides a variety of topics to choose from, even in the early years. Whether your child is more interested in world or U.S. history, you can tailor the curriculum to their interests, increasing their engagement in the learning process. Sitting down with your child to pick out their curriculum not only boosts their excitement but also gives them a sense of ownership over their education. 5. Literature-Based Learning Allows Flexibility in Scheduling Special needs families understand the challenge of balancing fluctuating moods, therapy appointments, and life’s demands. In a literature-based curriculum, feeling "behind" isn’t as much of a concern. In fact, many families end up ahead, thanks to the "One More Chapter Affliction"—the irresistible urge to keep reading just a little longer. With a literature-based approach, homeschooling doesn’t feel like “doing school” in the conventional sense. You can stretch the curriculum across the entire year or save books for leisurely summer reading, adjusting your schedule without pressure. Conclusion A literature-based homeschool approach like Sonlight offers the flexibility and organic learning experience that special needs children often require. Its adaptable nature makes it a great choice for families who need room to accommodate diverse learning styles, interests, and schedules.
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Incorporate Seasonal Fun into Your Homeschooling: Thanksgiving Learning Ideas
Fall is rushing by quickly, and snow is already starting to fly up north. Before we know it, the holiday season will be upon us. As you think about adding some seasonal fun to your homeschooling activities, here are some Thanksgiving learning ideas you can incorporate into any child’s homeschooling schedule. 20 Adaptable Thanksgiving Homeschool Activities Build Your Own Mayflower Craft and Science Activity – An easy activity for building a boat and learning the science of flotation. Thanksgiving “I Spy” Printable – Observation and simple counting reinforced through a Thanksgiving-themed “I Spy” game. Language Arts Games for Thanksgiving – Multiple Thanksgiving-themed games to reinforce language arts. Thanksgiving Dot Painting Printables – Dot painting printables with Thanksgiving themes. Building Number Sense, Turkey Style – Counting and turkeys make early math skills practice fun. Sensory Turkey for Thanksgiving – Learn how to make a multi-sensory turkey. “I Am Thankful” Lapbook – Printables for making a thanks-oriented lapbook. Color-in Thanksgiving Placemats – Printables for activity placemats to use for your Thanksgiving meal. K-4 Thanksgiving Reading Comprehension and Inference Activities – Multi-grade Thanksgiving reading activities, including comprehension and personal inference questions. Upper Elementary Thanksgiving Activities – Reading, writing, and math activities with Thanksgiving themes. Visual Thanksgiving Recipes – Recipes written with pictures so they can be followed by non-readers Fine Motor Turkey Math Game – Turkey, math, and therapy all wrapped up in one game. 21 Free Thanksgiving-Themed Unit Studies – An extensive list of free Thanksgiving-themed unit studies. Thanksgiving Videos for Kids – A variety of videos for kids with a Thanksgiving theme. Fine Motor Playdough Turkeys – Building this turkey is fun and helps develop fine motor skills. Thanksgiving Mad Libs – Kids add their own words to these Thanksgiving-themed Mad Lib activity sheets. 4 Thanksgiving Speech Therapy Activities – Ideas for incorporating Thanksgiving into your student’s speech activities. Thanksgiving Writing Activity Packet – Writing is always more fun when it includes a seasonal flair. (small fee for this resource) Fun Turkey Dance for Brain Breaks – A Thanksgiving brain break dance your kids will love. 30+ Thanksgiving Craft & Food Craft Ideas – Cute crafts that use a variety of different materials, including food. For more Thanksgiving SPED homeschooling ideas, make sure to check out our SPED Homeschooling Thanksgiving Pinterest Board. 
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Thankful in Trials: Trusting God’s Work Through Your Family’s Struggles
In this heartfelt episode of Empowering Homeschool Conversations, host Peggy Ployhar welcomes Sharon Jaynes, international speaker and bestselling author of twenty-six books, including Praying for Your Child from Head to Toe. Sharon, formerly the vice president of Proverbs 31 Ministries and co-host of their radio program, brings her deep well of wisdom to a conversation about finding hope and strength in the midst of family struggles, especially during the holiday season. Together, Peggy and Sharon explore the feelings of loneliness and heartache that homeschooling families often face when extended family members don’t understand or accept their children’s unique needs. With an emphasis on faith, they discuss how trusting God’s presence and plan can bring comfort and healing, even in the most difficult circumstances. Tune in for an uplifting and encouraging conversation about embracing gratitude, leaning on God’s promises, and watching Him work through life’s trials. To join in the after-show conversation, join the Empowering Homeschool Conversations Q&A group here: https://www.spedhomeschool.com/groups/tuesday-empowering-conversations *You must have a Navigator Membership or higher on Homeschool Heroes to be part of this group. To get a membership or upgrade your membership, visit: https://www.spedhomeschool.com/membership   To connect with Sharon and her resources, visit: https://sharonjaynes.com/   Viewers like you funded similar episodes, and other free resources from SPED Homeschool. To learn how you can support the nonprofit work of SPED Homeschool and this broadcast, visit https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ To find out more about SPED Homeschool, visit our website at https://spedhomeschool.com/ To learn about the other Empowering Homeschool Conversations Co-Hosts and their resources, visit: https://annieyorty.com/ https://www.leilanimelendez.com/ https://elarplearning.com/ https://solimaracademy.com/ Join our mission to empower homeschool families!: https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ Join our mission to empower homeschool families!: https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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Boosting Motor Planning Skills in Homeschool: Fun and Practical Strategies
by Sarah Collins, from Homeschool OT Motor planning is the ability to conceive, plan, and carry out a new motor action. A great example of this is curling your hair with a new curling iron while using a mirror. At first, it’s disorienting—you have to consciously think about which way to move your arm and may need a few tries before you get it right. For some, this process comes easily; for others, it requires more practice and deliberate planning. In a homeschool setting, challenges with motor planning can show up in various ways. Fortunately, there are enjoyable and simple activities that can help develop these skills throughout the day. Here are my top four ways to work on motor planning in a homeschool routine: 1. Meal Times Breakfast is an excellent time to foster independence in meal preparation. Try placing ingredients in manageable containers, like a small container for cereal and a separate cup for milk. This lets kids practice at their skill level. For more complex tasks like cracking eggs or stirring, we use large bowls or even place bowls in the sink to avoid spills. As kids become more confident and capable, we gradually remove these safeguards. 2. Outdoor Activities Spending time outside is invaluable for motor planning development. Nature offers opportunities for free play and physical challenges, whether it’s climbing a tree, navigating a hill, or balancing on a rock. As parents, we often feel tempted to protect our kids from falling or making mistakes. But motor planning involves risk-taking, self-evaluation, and the freedom to try again after a stumble. Outdoor play naturally encourages these skills. 3. Obstacle Courses Obstacle courses are another fantastic way to build motor planning skills. Sometimes I set up specific challenges, while other times I encourage kids to create their own. This activity lets them work on sequencing, problem-solving, and coordination in a fun and active way. 4. Games Finally, there are many games that encourage motor planning. Here’s a list of some favorites: Simon Says Robot Turtles Kids Charades Left Right Center Jenga These games combine movement, strategy, and timing—each of which helps with motor planning. As an occupational therapist consulting with homeschooling families, I love being able to explain the reasoning behind these activities and how they can benefit children. Even during challenging times, like the pandemic, I’ve been able to merge my passions for occupational therapy and homeschooling, continuing to support and inspire other families. If you’re interested in a personal consultation on incorporating these strategies into your homeschool, please reach out to Homeschool OT. (Originally published on Sarah’s website as "Motor Planning Strategies in the Homeschool")
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Why Adding More Learning—Not Less—Can Help Struggling Students Thrive
by Peggy Ployhar Do you have a student who struggles with a core subject—perhaps math, reading, or spelling? Many parents find themselves in the same situation. When progress stalls, the instinctive reaction is often to double down on that subject to “catch up.” But this approach can actually work against your child’s success. Let me share a scenario I’ve discussed with countless parents over the past 15 years, especially those frustrated by a lack of progress despite intensifying focus on a particular subject. I usually begin by saying, “What I’m about to tell you may seem counterintuitive at first, so let’s start with a little thought experiment.” A Parallel to Consider Imagine the chore or activity you dislike most. (For many parents, this is something like cooking, laundry, cleaning, or car maintenance—necessary but unappealing tasks.) For me, it’s cleaning my house. I love to cook, but cleaning? Not so much. Now, picture having everything else cleared from your schedule so you have all day to tackle that one disliked chore. Personally, if I knew my entire Saturday was dedicated to cleaning, I’d probably avoid it as long as possible! Wouldn’t you feel the same? This is exactly how your child feels when other subjects and activities are removed to focus solely on their “struggle” areas. When their day is filled with only the subjects they find difficult, motivation wanes quickly. The Solution: Adding More Unconventional Learning Instead of focusing on fewer subjects, consider adding more unconventional learning into your child’s routine. We’re all familiar with the concept of incentives—rewards like toys, food, or stickers help children learn perseverance through positive reinforcement. These external motivators are effective, but over time, it’s even better if children can develop intrinsic motivation, discovering the rewards of learning itself and recognizing their unique strengths. This is where incorporating unconventional learning can help shift your student’s perspective, allowing them to find enjoyment in learning and see themselves as capable and gifted. Let me share how this approach played out in our homeschool journey with my oldest son. An Example: Building Confidence Through Structural Engineering At 11 years old, my son still struggled with reading. We worked daily on reading skills, using various curriculums to help him move forward. But I knew that overemphasizing reading could crush his confidence and drain his interest in learning. My son loved to build, so I decided to make that a formal part of his learning. I created a weekly subject in his planner called “Structural Engineering” and found a K'NEX Education set on constructing real bridges. Each week, we studied bridge designs and built them together. This approach made a noticeable difference. My son’s self-esteem soared as he saw what I’d known all along: he had a talent for engineering. This year, 12 years later, that same young man graduated with a degree in Biomedical Engineering—a path that aligned perfectly with the skills he started developing back then. Shifting Focus from "Catching Up" to "Building Up" As you plan your homeschooling year, avoid the trap of over-focusing on “catching up.” Instead, build your student up by adding more varied and enriching learning opportunities. Show them that despite any learning difficulties, they are indeed gifted learners.
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Elevating the Education of Unique Learners: Beyond Basics with Music, Art, and More
by Cheryl Swope, M.Ed. One ought, every day at least, to hear a little song, read a good poem, see a fine picture, and, if it were possible, to speak a few reasonable words." – Goethe Whether new to homeschooling, seasoned with decades of experience, or somewhere in between, we all share a common goal: ensuring that our children’s education doesn’t feel solely remedial. We commit to building up their reading, spelling, writing, and math skills through steady practice. However, it’s essential that we balance this foundation with an education that nourishes the soul and engages their full humanity. With this in mind, here are seven ways to elevate the education of a child with special needs: 1. Music Research highlights music’s positive effects on memory, auditory processing, phonological awareness, and reading. Beyond cognitive benefits, music offers peace amid challenges. Victor Hugo wrote, “Music expresses that which cannot be put into words.” Explore this free playlist to introduce weekly pieces, encouraging your child to dance, twirl, or listen closely. Talk about the instruments, tempo, rhythm, and emotions conveyed. If possible, introduce them to an instrument or singing, providing a gift that endures. 2. Art Art invites children to connect with beauty and creativity. For nonverbal children, no words are needed to admire or interact with art. Display art posters in their room or engage in crafts if they are young. Older children may experiment with creating their own art. At home, we set “no-talking time” or played classical music to support silent focus, starting with only 5–10 minutes at a time. 3. Read-Alouds Reading aloud offers children shared experiences, stories to connect with, and opportunities to bond. Fiction and nonfiction read-alouds boost receptive and expressive language, expand knowledge, and gradually improve attention. This practice gives our children narratives to explore that go beyond their own challenges. 4. Nature Nature invites children to slow down and connect with the world. For my daughter, nature’s wonders—like a luna moth or caterpillar—prompted her to pause and observe. We began a nature journal, where I recorded her observations until she could write independently. Younger children can enjoy simple nature walks and picture books, while older ones can study birds, plants, or mammals, fostering a sense of place. 5. Poetry Poetry elevates language and, even in simple forms, supports phonological awareness and rhyming skills. For children, collections like A Child’s Garden of Verses or A Child’s Garden of Song set to music enhance memory and language play. Older children can explore more advanced poems that stimulate imagination and may even inspire their own writing. 6. Aesop’s Fables Aesop’s fables have engaged learners for centuries with lessons in honesty, integrity, and moral awareness. These timeless tales, often conveyed through animals, offer unique social insights, especially for children with autism. Listening to Aesop’s Fables on CD or using a copybook to reflect on these stories deepens the impact over repeated readings. 7. Christian Studies To truly elevate our children’s education, we can include timeless truths that encourage resilience and hope. Practicing gratitude and reflecting on Scripture can help older children overcome discouragement. For instance, focusing on verses like, “I have loved you with an everlasting love…” (Jeremiah 31:3) can remind them of their inherent worth. Summary At home, both of our children continue to find joy and calm in the practices that have enriched their learning. My daughter plays her piano pieces, including Hickory Dickory Dock and a modified Minuet, while her twin brother composes his own music. Both read at the lunch table, walk outdoors, and take pleasure in helping others. These elements have uplifted not only their days but also mine. Although our twins are on the autism spectrum with learning disabilities and mental health challenges, they now express gratitude for these enriching experiences. Let’s inspire our children to find joy in life’s simple, beautiful things, as Tolstoy described: “Rest, nature, books, music, love for one’s neighbor—such is my idea of happiness.” About the Author Cheryl Swope, M.Ed., is the author of Simply Classical: A Beautiful Education for Any Child and creator of the Simply Classical Curriculum from Memoria Press. She and her husband adopted boy-girl twins with special needs over twenty years ago, homeschooling them through high school graduation. The family now resides together in a wooded lake community in Missouri.
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Filling Your Cup: Simple Ways to Find Rest and Renewal as a Homeschooling Parent
By Jennifer Cullimore We all have different circumstances: some of us live in two-parent homes, some (like myself) are single, some work outside the home, and others work from home. One thing many of us homeschooling parents share, especially those of us with children who have special needs, is a lack of time for ourselves. Often, we don’t even realize how empty our “cups” are until they’re bone dry. People have told me, “You just need to get a babysitter and go out.” But it’s not always that simple. Babysitters cost money, which I don’t always have, and finding someone who can handle my kids’ unique needs isn’t easy. Extra cash for a spontaneous night out or a mani-pedi isn’t usually in the budget. But even with these challenges, I still need ways to refill my cup and take care of myself. If you can relate, here are a few simple strategies that have helped me—I hope they can help you too! 1. Establish a Bedtime Routine Even though our bedtime routine sometimes gets off track, it’s crucial for my well-being. My girls know that after bedtime, it’s mommy time. Those couple of hours in the evening allow me to recharge and take care of my own needs. Yes, I sometimes stay up too late, but that time to myself helps energize me to face the next day. 2. Prioritize Sleep While I do occasionally stay up late, I also make sure to get the sleep my body needs. One of the blessings of homeschooling is that we aren’t tied to a strict schedule. If we’ve had a rough night—like when one of my kids has ear pain and is up for hours—we can adjust and start our school day later. This flexibility allows us all to get the rest we need, which makes our days run more smoothly. 3. Podcasts, YouTube, and Sermons Because of some of my kids’ challenges, we aren’t currently involved in a local church, but I still need to fill my spiritual cup. Podcasts, YouTube, and online sermons have been a lifeline for me. I love listening to Francis Chan, the Bible Project, and other homeschooling moms who share encouraging and godly wisdom. I do this at night after the kids are in bed or while I’m doing household chores. My girls also enjoy their favorite worship songs and hymns, so we incorporate those into our day as well. Another great resource is Empowering Homeschool Conversations, our weekly live broadcast. You can watch it live on Tuesday afternoons from 12:30 to 1:30 pm Central, or catch it later on YouTube or as a podcast. 4. Time with the Lord Personal devotions are essential for filling my cup, and while I don’t always stick to my routine, I try to jump back in whenever I fall out of the habit. Online groups, like the “Write His Word” Facebook group, have been great accountability tools for me, encouraging me to journal and reflect on Scripture. Writing God’s Word helps me remember it, and it strengthens my connection with Him. 5. Art and Handicrafts I may not have been born with natural artistic talent, but I love creating things. One of my favorite ways to unwind is through “adult coloring books.” There’s something about coloring that relaxes me and sparks my creativity. In the evenings, you’ll often find me coloring while listening to a podcast or sermon. I also enjoy crocheting, and lately, I’ve even started experimenting with painting and drawing. While my creations won’t be in any art gallery soon, they bring me joy—and that’s what matters. No matter what your situation looks like, it’s important to remember that finding small moments to fill your cup will help you take care of yourself so you can continue pouring into your family. Whether it’s establishing routines, allowing yourself to rest, or finding creative outlets, every little step counts in maintaining your well-being as a homeschooling parent.
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Just Breathe: Finding Peace and Perspective in the Chaos of Homeschooling
By Dawn Spence "It's ready, set, go, it's another wild day When the stress is on the rise, in my heart I feel you say Just breathe, just breathe Come and rest at my feet And be, just be Chaos calls but all you really need Is to just breathe." —Jonny Diaz These lyrics from Jonny Diaz speak straight to my heart, and I often find myself needing to take a deep breath, especially on those days when life feels overwhelming. Breathe Reminder: You Are Accomplishing More Than You Think As a homeschooling mom, I sometimes get caught up in everything I think I should be doing—as both a mom and a teacher. When those thoughts of inadequacy creep in, it’s easy to lose sight of all the amazing things I am doing. We juggle multiple roles, and that can lead to self-doubt, but it’s important to pause, breathe, and reflect on how much we are accomplishing every single day. The progress may feel slow or even invisible, but it is happening. Every lesson, every conversation, every moment of connection is contributing to your children’s growth and learning. Breathe Reminder: You Are Enough In those moments of stress, I remind myself to “just breathe.” There are countless things I can teach my children, but one of the most important lessons is the value of peace. I won’t always be in control of every situation, and that’s okay. I don’t need to be perfect, and neither do you. You are enough, just as you are. Teaching our children to embrace their own imperfections, to learn from their mistakes, and to recognize that they, too, are enough, is one of the greatest life lessons we can offer. Mistakes aren’t failures; they’re stepping stones to growth. Let them see that, in you. Breathe Reminder: Perspective Provides Pathways When my kids are upset, or heading toward a meltdown, I often tell them, “Blow out your candles.” It’s a simple way to remind them (and sometimes myself) to stop and breathe deeply. Breathing brings clarity, and it can help shift our perspective when we feel overwhelmed. I’ve even had moments where my kids remind me to blow out my candles! Those moments of intentional breathing allow us to step back, and suddenly the situations that felt impossible become manageable. We regain perspective and realize that not everything is as dire as it seems in the heat of the moment. Breathe Reminder: God Equips You for This Journey As you move through today’s challenges, remember to breathe and trust that you are enough—and that God is equipping you for this journey. You don’t need to have all the answers or the perfect plan. He has called you to this work and is with you every step of the way. When you find yourself in the chaos, stressed and uncertain, take a moment to just breathe. Rest in the knowledge that you are exactly where you need to be, and you are doing exactly what you need to do. Your breath can anchor you, reminding you that you are enough for your family, and that with God’s guidance, you can meet whatever challenges come your way. So today, when chaos calls, take a moment to breathe—and trust the journey.