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Why Your Child’s IQ Score Doesn’t Define Their Potential
Limited public access until 3/24/25 - Get a Navigator Membership for just pennies a day to open searchable content in hundreds of articles just like this one, so you can access expert advice any time day or night during on your homeschooling journey. By Dianne Craft, MA, CNHP “My Child is Just a Slow Learner… Right?” A mom recently emailed me with a concern: "Hi Dianne, I just found your website and articles, and I’m intrigued. You keep mentioning that different teaching strategies and therapies work for 'bright, hardworking children who have to work too hard to learn.' Our 13-year-old son is described as a 'slow learner.' We think he's pretty smart, but his private school’s teachers and psychologists don’t agree. His IQ was tested at 81. To me, his struggles look like dyslexia and severe dysgraphia, but the school psychologist said his IQ isn’t high enough for that diagnosis. Do different teaching strategies even work for kids like him?" This question gets to the heart of a major issue in education today: the way we interpret IQ scores and learning potential. The Problem with IQ Tests Schools often use IQ tests, like the WISC-IV, to determine whether a child has a learning disability and qualifies for special education services. The standard thinking is: If a child has an average or high IQ but struggles in reading, writing, or math, they may be diagnosed with a learning disability and receive support. If a child has a low IQ and struggles, they’re labeled a “slow learner” and told interventions won’t help. This approach is deeply flawed. It assumes that IQ is a fixed measure of intelligence and that struggling students with low scores simply "can’t learn much more." Nothing could be further from the truth. What IQ Tests Really Measure IQ tests break down into four main areas: Verbal Comprehension Perceptual Reasoning Working Memory Processing Speed Here’s the problem: many struggling learners score low in Working Memory and Processing Speed, not because they aren’t intelligent, but because they have underlying learning challenges like auditory processing issues, dyslexia, or dysgraphia. For example, in the working memory section of an IQ test, students are asked to hear a string of numbers and letters and repeat them back in reverse order. This isn’t just testing intelligence—it’s testing auditory memory and sequencing skills. If a child has an auditory processing disorder, they may score low, even if they are bright and capable in other ways. This is why I don’t put much stock in IQ scores alone. Instead, I focus on identifying the underlying processing issues and addressing them directly. Real Kids, Real Progress Let me share two stories of students who were labeled as having “low IQs” but thrived once their learning challenges were properly addressed. Meet Janet: From ‘Slow Learner’ to Average IQ Janet was a quiet, thoughtful 6th grader who had been in a self-contained classroom for “slow learners.” She struggled to count past 18 when playing hide-and-seek—not because she wasn’t capable, but because of a severe auditory processing disorder. Instead of accepting her low IQ score as a fixed reality, I introduced Brain Integration Therapy—a series of exercises that strengthen brain connections and processing skills. I also taught her to rely on her right-brain photographic memory to learn spelling, reading, and math. After a year of targeted interventions, Janet’s academic skills jumped by three grade levels, and her IQ score—previously considered "low"—was retested and found to be average. Meet Joshua: Dyslexia & Dysgraphia Misdiagnosed as Low IQ Joshua, an 8th grader, had spent years in a classroom for low-IQ students. He couldn’t read, couldn’t write, and reversed almost every letter when trying to spell—even misspelling his last name. His IQ score was low, but what I saw was severe dyslexia and dysgraphia, not a lack of intelligence. I implemented the same brain exercises I used with Janet and helped him use visual memory strategies for reading and spelling. Within a year: He gained three grade levels in reading and spelling. He became independent enough to work as a counselor’s aide, delivering messages around the school. His transformation was so dramatic that his story was featured in a newspaper article called “The Education of Joshua.” What This Means for Your Child If your child has been labeled a “slow learner” due to a low IQ score, here’s what I want you to know: IQ tests measure processing skills, not true intelligence. Dyslexia, dysgraphia, and auditory processing disorders are often mistaken for low intelligence. Targeted interventions (not expensive, just consistent) can unlock a child’s full potential. If you’re homeschooling a struggling learner, don’t let labels hold them back. Focus on strengthening their processing skills, using right-brain strategies, and building their confidence. Your child is more capable than any test score can show.  Would you like practical strategies to help your child? Check out Diane's resources on Brain Integration Therapy and right-brain learning techniques. You can also receive practical teaching strategies unique to your child's brain needs with the MindPrint Test.  You CAN help your child thrive! Looking for more content like this? 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A Relationship-Based Approach to Teaching Unique Learners
Limited public access until 3/20/25 - Get a Navigator Membership for just pennies a day to open searchable content in hundreds of articles just like this one, so you can access expert advice any time day or night during on your homeschooling journey. By Mary Winfield Dr. Stanley Greenspan developed the Developmental, Individual Difference, Relationship-Based Model (DIR Method) in 1979 to support children with autism and other learning challenges. This method provides a personalized approach to learning, helping parents and educators create structured, engaging, and meaningful interactions. While originally designed for children with special needs, the DIR Method is beneficial for all students. What makes it powerful is that it doesn’t offer a one-size-fits-all solution—instead, it focuses on each child's unique strengths, interests, and needs. Rather than just addressing learning difficulties, this approach builds a solid foundation for lifelong growth and development. Let’s break down the three key parts of the DIR Method and explore how it can be applied in a homeschool setting. D = Developmental Every child develops at their own pace. The DIR Method encourages incremental progress rather than jumping too far ahead. For example, if a child is nonverbal, setting a goal for them to hold long conversations with peers would be unrealistic. Instead, the focus should be on small, achievable steps—like learning to point to a picture to make a request, then moving toward using simple words. Skipping developmental steps often leads to frustration for both the child and the parent. By focusing on where your child is now and what comes next, you create a smoother and more effective learning path. I = Individual Difference Every child is unique, with different interests, strengths, and challenges. The DIR Method recognizes that learning isn’t just about following a curriculum—it’s about engaging your child in a way that makes sense to them. When lessons connect with a child’s natural curiosity, learning happens more easily. Think about how much faster kids absorb information when they’re excited about a topic! Incorporating your child’s interests—whether it’s dinosaurs, space, or music—can help them stay engaged and motivated. Try This: Use LEGO bricks for math if your child loves building Let them act out historical events if they enjoy storytelling Find nature-based activities if they learn best outdoors The key is to tap into what excites them and use that as a tool for teaching. R = Relationship-Based As the saying goes, “They don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.” Children thrive in relationships where they feel safe, valued, and understood. If a child sees learning as a checklist of tasks rather than an opportunity to connect, they are more likely to resist. But when parents and educators prioritize relationships, children become more open to learning. Try This: Take learning breaks for connection (e.g., play a game together or share a story) Show flexibility on tough days—sometimes a child needs support more than structure Find ways to make learning personal by using inside jokes, shared experiences, or family traditions Real-Life Application: How I Used DIR with a Struggling Student When I worked in a public school, I was assigned to support a kindergartener named Steve who struggled with focus and behavior. He was constantly moving, had trouble paying attention, and often acted out. One day, instead of taking a break during recess, I joined him in play. We pretended to be pirates searching for treasure, running from imaginary crocodiles. Later that afternoon, I was shocked—Steve sat longer, focused more, and engaged in his work for the first time all year. From then on, I incorporated his interests into learning. We counted “buried treasure” for math and created pirate-themed reading activities. By the end of the year, his teachers and parents were amazed by his progress. The key wasn’t stricter discipline—it was building a relationship and making learning meaningful to him. A Simple Framework for Homeschooling with DIR Think of the DIR Method as a tree: Roots = Relationships (the foundation of learning) Trunk = Interests & Strengths (what holds learning together) Branches & Fruit = Developmental Goals (the skills we want to nurture) By focusing on relationship, interest, and development, we can create a homeschool environment where learning feels natural, engaging, and fulfilling. Want to Learn More? If you’re interested in diving deeper into the DIR Method, Profectum is a great resource for further learning. By using these principles in your homeschool, you can help your child feel supported, motivated, and excited to learn. Looking for more content like this? 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A Simple Way to Build Independence in Your Homeschool
Limited public access until 3/19/25 - Get a Navigator Membership for just pennies a day to open searchable content in hundreds of articles just like this one, so you can access expert advice any time day or night during on your homeschooling journey. By Dawn Spence When I first learned about workboxes and visual supports, I was teaching a self-contained classroom for children with special needs. I saw firsthand how structure, organization, and predictability helped my students gain independence. Now that I homeschool, I use the same strategies with my own children—because independence is important for all learners. Even my older son, who has no learning challenges, thrives with this system. Workboxes aren’t just for students with special needs—they are an excellent tool for any homeschool family looking to add more structure, self-sufficiency, and organization to their day. Workboxes for Older Students & Typical Learners For my older children, workboxes help them take ownership of their learning. Here’s how I set them up: Each drawer is labeled, either with a number (to be completed in order) or by subject. A special label, "Work with Mom," indicates tasks that need direct instruction. When all drawers are complete, their school day is done! This system gives my children a clear visual of what needs to be accomplished, helping them stay on task and motivated. You can download free labels from various sites, like Mama Jenn’s blog. Workboxes are also easy to find on Amazon, with many different options to fit your space and needs. Workboxes for Struggling Learners For my daughter, who needs more structure and motivation, I created a tailored system that works best for her learning style. Here’s how her setup differs: She completes her boxes in a specific order, from 3 down to 1. When she finishes, she gets to pick a preferred activity as a reward—Play-Doh, puzzles, or her all-time favorite: bubbles! I use visual supports from Teachers Pay Teachers to help her track progress. I also incorporate wash tubs from Dollar Tree, using the same visual system on her desk and bins. At first, I had to remind her of the reward waiting at the end, but now she anticipates it herself and moves through her work independently. Why Workboxes Work Workboxes create routine, structure, and independence while helping children clearly see what is expected of them. I was amazed at how seamlessly this system fit into our homeschool routine, making our days flow more smoothly without needing to change our curriculum. More Ideas for Using Workboxes in Your Homeschool Themed Workboxes: Create boxes based on a subject or unit study, like a science experiment kit or a history reading box. Morning Baskets: Use a workbox system for morning time, including daily devotions, read-alouds, and calendar activities. Chore Workboxes: Assign drawers for chores, with instructions and checklists for added independence. Sensory-Friendly Workboxes: Fill some drawers with fidgets, calming activities, or movement breaks for sensory regulation. Whether your child thrives with structure or needs extra motivation to get through their lessons, workboxes can be a game-changer in your homeschool. Give it a try—and see how it transforms your daily routine! Looking for more content like this? Get a Navigator Membership for just pennies a day to open searchable content in hundreds of articles just like this one, so you can access expert advice like that offered in this article any time day or night during on your homeschooling journey.
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Neurodevelopmental Movements for Strong Learning Foundations and Success
Join host Peggy Ployhar for an enlightening conversation with Sonia Story, M.S., creator of the Brain and Sensory Foundations program. Sonia shares how innate rhythmic movements, primitive reflex integration, and postural reflexes can help children build strong foundations for learning and thriving. With years of experience teaching these evidence-based techniques, Sonia explains how they support sensory processing, improve focus, and foster better coordination. Whether you're navigating sensory challenges, ADHD, or seeking strategies to help your child succeed, this episode is packed with practical insights you won’t want to miss!   To connect with Sonia, her resources, and her amazing and transformational program, visit: https://moveplaythrive.com/courses/primitive-reflex-integration-first-level?affiliate=spedhomeschool Also use this coupon, SPEDHOME36, for a $36 discount off the program. (This is an affiliate link that not only gives you a great price to this program but also benefits the nonprofit work of SPED Homeschool. Thanks for your purchase!)   Your FREE gift from Sonia, a Reflex Integration Checklist https://spedhomeschool--moveplaythrive.thrivecart.com/brain-and-sensory-foundations/6304014133eb7/   Link to Sonia's slides: https://moveplaythrive.com/images/pdf/SPED_Homeschool_Podcast_Sonia_Story.pdf   Viewers like you funded similar episodes, and other free resources from SPED Homeschool. To learn how you can support the nonprofit work of SPED Homeschool and this broadcast, visit https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/   NEW to SPED Homeschool and the Homeschool Heroes platform: Consultations and Cognitive Testing.   Here is Now What's Available for Your Family through SPED Homeschool: One-on-One Consultations – Get expert guidance in homeschooling a struggling student, curriculum choices, accommodations, behavior strategies, executive function support, high school planning, and more. Our consultants provide personalized recommendations to help you move forward with confidence. https://www.spedhomeschool.com/consultants   MindPrint Cognitive Assessment – Finally, a strengths-based approach to education. This easy, at-home cognitive assessment provides unbiased insights into how your child learns best. It helps you understand where they’ll naturally excel and where they may need extra support—allowing you to tailor your teaching effectively with data that tells you exactly how your student learns best! https://www.spedhomeschool.com/store/products/4344/mindprint-student-assessment   MindPrint + Consultation Bundle - When you bundle the MindPrint test with a consultation, you unlock a database of MindPrint teaching resources only accessible to our consults, which gives you even more in-depth and personalized homeschooling help to help your student learn successfully. https://www.spedhomeschool.com/store/products/4345/mindprint-student-assessment-plus-consultation   You don’t have to struggle through this journey alone. We’re here to give you the tools and confidence you need to create a home learning environment where your child flourishes. To find out more about SPED Homeschool, visit our website at https://spedhomeschool.com/   To learn about the other Empowering Homeschool Conversations Co-Hosts and their resources, visit: https://annieyorty.com/ https://www.leilanimelendez.com/ https://elarplearning.com/ https://solimaracademy.com/   Join our mission to empower homeschool families!: https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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Embracing Nature's Classroom in Homeschooling
In this episode of Empowering Homeschool Conversations, host Annie Yorty welcomes Joy Burns, a retired homeschooling mother and garden educator at the JC Raulston Arboretum at NC State University. With her combined expertise in education, communication, and nature programming, Joy is passionate about helping families embrace nature’s classroom as a powerful learning environment.  Join us as Joy shares practical ways to incorporate outdoor learning into homeschooling, from hands-on garden activities to fostering curiosity through nature exploration. Whether you're looking for simple ways to get outside more or structured nature-based lessons, this conversation will inspire you to make the natural world a central part of your child’s education.  To connect with Joy and her resources, use this link: https://jcra.ncsu.edu/  Viewers like you funded similar episodes, and other free resources from SPED Homeschool. To learn how you can support the nonprofit work of SPED Homeschool and this broadcast, visit https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ NEW to SPED Homeschool and the Homeschool Heroes platform: Consultations and Cognitive Testing.  Here is Now What's Available for Your Family through SPED Homeschool:  One-on-One Consultations – Get expert guidance in homeschooling a struggling student, curriculum choices, accommodations, behavior strategies, executive function support, high school planning, and more. Our consultants provide personalized recommendations to help you move forward with confidence. https://www.spedhomeschool.com/consultants  MindPrint Cognitive Assessment – Finally, a strengths-based approach to education. This easy, at-home cognitive assessment provides unbiased insights into how your child learns best. It helps you understand where they’ll naturally excel and where they may need extra support—allowing you to tailor your teaching effectively with data that tells you exactly how your student learns best! https://www.spedhomeschool.com/store/products/4344/mindprint-student-assessment  MindPrint + Consultation Bundle - When you bundle the MindPrint test with a consultation, you unlock a database of MindPrint teaching resources only accessible to our consults, which gives you even more in-depth and personalized homeschooling help to help your student learn successfully. https://www.spedhomeschool.com/store/products/4345/mindprint-student-assessment-plus-consultation  You don’t have to struggle through this journey alone. We’re here to give you the tools and confidence you need to create a home learning environment where your child flourishes.  To find out more about SPED Homeschool, visit our website at https://spedhomeschool.com/ To learn about the other Empowering Homeschool Conversations Co-Hosts and their resources, visit:  https://annieyorty.com/ https://www.leilanimelendez.com/https://elarplearning.com/ https://solimaracademy.com/  Join our mission to empower homeschool families! https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ Join our mission to empower homeschool families!: https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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Overcoming Doubt and Embracing Your Unique Homeschooling Journey
By Dawn Spence Am I the Best Teacher for My Child? This is a question I still ask myself often. If you’ve ever wrestled with this doubt, know that you are not alone. The fear of failing our children and the guilt of not doing things perfectly can feel overwhelming. But here’s the truth: You don’t have to be perfect to be the best teacher for your child. You just have to be willing to show up, to keep trying, and to love them through the process. Why You Are the Best Teacher for Your Child Homeschooling a child with learning challenges is a journey of trial and error. Some days, it feels like you’re trying every curriculum on the market just to find what clicks. And guess what? That effort—your commitment to searching, adjusting, and adapting—is exactly what makes you the best teacher for your child. No one knows them better than you do, and no one is more invested in their success. Your child doesn’t need a perfect teacher; they need a patient, persistent, and loving one. The beauty of homeschooling is that you set the pace, and you can prioritize mastery over speed. If a concept isn’t clicking after weeks of practice, you have the freedom to slow down, approach it from a new angle, and keep going until it sticks. This flexibility is one of the greatest gifts you can offer your child. Practical Encouragement for Hard Days When Progress Feels Slow, Celebrate Small Wins If your child struggles with memory, reading, or math concepts, it’s easy to feel like you’re stuck. Instead of focusing on how far you have to go, take a moment to acknowledge how far you’ve come. Did they remember a word they previously struggled with? Did they show improvement in a math problem? Every small victory is a step forward. Adjust, Don’t Abandon If a curriculum isn’t working, it’s okay to switch gears. But before throwing it out completely, consider adapting it. Can you add movement, hands-on activities, or visual supports? Sometimes, a simple tweak can make all the difference. Remind Yourself Why You Started On the toughest days, take a deep breath and remember why you chose to homeschool. Your child’s education isn’t just about academics—it’s about their growth, confidence, and well-being. You are building a foundation that will last a lifetime. A Moment of Encouragement The other day, as my daughter played, she looked up at me and said, “Momma, thank you for believing that I am smart.” In that moment, I was reminded that my role is not to teach perfectly but to love persistently. So, if you’re questioning whether you’re the right teacher for your child, let me reassure you: Yes, you are. You are exactly what your child needs. Keep showing up. Keep believing in them. Keep believing in yourself. Homeschooling isn’t about perfection—it’s about perseverance. And you are doing an incredible job. “God let me see teaching my children is not about me being perfect, but having a willing and open heart to teach them the best I can each day.”
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Embracing the Joy of Silliness in Homeschooling
By Cheryl Swope, M.Ed Far and few, far and few Are the lands where the Jumblies live. —Edward Lear Amidst all the academic rigor, children need a little nonsense. Not only do we love to hear our children giggle, but nonsense also stretches a child's mind. A little silliness can take them to unexpected, liberating places, sparking creativity, curiosity, and joy in the learning process. Moving the Ordinary into the Extraordinary We can explore scientific strategies to help children prone to cognitive rigidity, but one of the simplest and most delightful remedies is already at our fingertips: silliness! Absurdity invites wonder. A little nonsense can shake up a child's perception of the world, helping them break free from rigid thinking and embrace curiosity. Consider the ridiculously tall tree grown from a single tiny seed. To a child, this is a marvel beyond logic. G.K. Chesterton writes, "So long as we regard a tree as an obvious thing, naturally and seasonably created for a giraffe to eat, we cannot properly wonder at it. It is when we consider it as a prodigious wave of the living soil sprawling up to the skies for no reason in particular that we take off our hats." When we embrace this kind of imaginative thinking in our homeschool, we help our children see beyond what is and wonder at what could be. Using Song and Rhyme to Stretch Thinking Beyond the wonders of nature, nonsense rhymes and playful language can loosen a child's grip on rigid logic. Consider this classic nursery rhyme: Hey Diddle Diddle, The cat and the fiddle, The cow jumped over the moon. The little dog laughed, To see such fun, And the dish ran away with the spoon. These whimsical verses engage young minds, helping them play with language, sound, and meaning. The repetition and rhythm provide comfort, while the silly imagery sparks joy. Contemporary children's literature also embraces the magic of nonsense. Books like The Gruffalo by Julia Donaldson or Dragons Love Tacos by Adam Rubin introduce children to playful, imaginative worlds that encourage creative thinking. These stories, like the classic rhymes of old, remind us that language is meant to delight as well as inform. Opening Doors for Spiritual Truth Through wonder, children begin to grasp deeper truths. Chesterton explains, "Nonsense and faith (strange as the conjunction may seem) are the two supreme symbolic assertions of the truth that to draw out the soul of things with a syllogism is as impossible as to draw out Leviathan with a hook." We read stories from Scripture so that children may be captivated by One greater than their own understanding. Jesus invites us into wonder when He says, "Come unto me." The miracle of the incarnation, the depth of the crucifixion, and the transcendent marvel of the resurrection are all beyond reason yet within reach through faith. When we cultivate wonder in our children, we are preparing their hearts to embrace the miraculous. Developing Hearts and Minds for Wonder Perhaps we never realized our role in nurturing wonder in our children! By incorporating silliness and joyful curiosity into our homeschool, we accomplish much. This is why we weave playful stories, poems, and songs into our curriculum. More than just boosting phonological awareness, these moments allow children to laugh, explore, and engage with the world in fresh, imaginative ways. Wonder broadens the mind and draws children toward truth. When we teach the marvels of God's Word, we lead them to be embraced by the One who is truly Wonderful (Isaiah 9:6). "Many, O Lord my God, are thy wonderful works which thou hast done, and thy thoughts which are to us-ward: they cannot be reckoned up in order unto thee: if I would declare and speak of them, they are more than can be numbered." —Psalm 40:5 "How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! How great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand." —Psalm 139:17-18
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Using Rewards to Motivate Your Child Without Bribing
By Jill Camacho Have you tried absolutely everything to motivate your child to complete schoolwork? Are you exhausted from the battles and unsure if rewards are even a good idea? Maybe you’re worried about bribing your child into compliance instead of fostering genuine motivation. First, take a deep breath—you’re not alone. Many parents struggle with getting their children to initiate, sustain attention, and follow through with tasks. The good news? There are practical ways to use external motivators effectively without creating dependence on them. Let’s break down the difference between bribes and rewards, talk about how to use incentives wisely, and explore strategies that can make everyday learning smoother for both you and your child. Aren't Bribes and Rewards the Same Thing? Nope. You read that right—external motivators (a.k.a. incentives or rewards) are not bribes. I used to think they were! Like many parents, I was caught between conflicting advice. Some parenting experts say, "Don't bribe your child," yet many behavioral therapy programs encourage the use of reward charts. What’s a parent to do? The lightbulb moment happened when I told our ABA provider that I had "bribed" my son for good behavior that day. Then she set me free. There’s a small but critical difference. The best way to explain it is through an example. Let’s say your child loves Minecraft but hates doing math. Bribe: Your child is crying, refusing to do math, and on the verge of a meltdown. In desperation, you say, "If you finish four more questions, you can play Minecraft!" Incentive: You establish a clear rule beforehand: "Math comes first. Once you complete your work, you can have 15 minutes of Minecraft time." See the difference? In a bribe, the reward is offered after negative behavior has started, which teaches the child they can resist to gain something. In an incentive, expectations are set before the struggle begins, making it more like earning a paycheck rather than negotiating a hostage situation. How to Use Rewards Without Creating Dependence Now that we understand the difference, let’s talk about how to use external motivators wisely in homeschooling. 1. Be Mindful with Food and Electronics It’s easy to fall into the habit of using food or screen time as motivation, but too much reliance on these can create long-term issues. Consider: Using non-food rewards like stickers, special outings, or extra bedtime stories. Avoiding sugary treats as daily motivators, as they can contribute to unhealthy eating habits. Keeping electronics in check by using them as a tool, not just an escape. 2. Use Non-Tangible Rewards Not all rewards have to be physical. Many kids respond well to experiences and privileges. Try: Letting them pick a family game or activity. Allowing extra playtime outside. Giving them the choice of a special book to read together. Letting them decide the menu for dinner. Offering extra snuggle time before bed. These types of incentives foster connection and don’t rely on material goods. 3. Balance External and Intrinsic Motivation We all work for rewards—adults earn paychecks, after all. But we also need to develop intrinsic motivation, like cleaning our homes without being paid. Use external motivators for larger struggles (e.g., finishing a challenging subject). Gradually reduce rewards as tasks become habits. For example, if your child initially earns a reward for completing math, slowly increase the amount of work they complete before receiving it. Praise effort, not just the outcome. Say, "I love how you stuck with it!" rather than only rewarding finished work. 4. Transitioning from External to Internal Motivation Your goal is to help your child shift from "I do this because I get something" to "I do this because it matters." Here’s how: Use a “surprise” system. Occasionally, reward effort randomly instead of consistently. This helps children learn to do things without expecting a guaranteed reward every time. Teach self-reflection. After completing a task, ask, "How do you feel now that you finished? Was it as hard as you thought? What helped you get through it?" Highlight real-life rewards. Show them how completing tasks leads to natural benefits. "You finished early today! Now you have more time to play." Encourage goal setting. Instead of just offering rewards, help your child set goals and track their progress. 5. Stick to Your Guns If you set an expectation, follow through. Avoid changing the rules in the middle of a meltdown. If your child agreed to complete a page of math for their reward, don’t reduce it to half a page just because they’re upset. If adjustments are needed, make them later—not in the heat of the moment. Consistency builds trust. Your child will learn that effort leads to rewards, not resistance. Encouragement for the Parent Struggling with Motivation Battles If you’re feeling drained from the daily battles, please know that using incentives doesn’t mean you’re failing. You’re equipping your child with tools to navigate tasks they find difficult. Some kids naturally develop self-motivation, while others need more structured support. That’s okay. If rewards feel like the only thing working right now, use them—but with intention. If today was tough, tomorrow is a new opportunity to try again. You are doing a great job adapting to your child's needs and finding creative ways to help them succeed. Homeschooling isn’t about perfection. It’s about perseverance. You’ve got this!
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Understanding Your Learner to Avoid Teaching Pitfalls
In this episode of Empowering Homeschool Conversations, host Dawn Jackson dives into the critical topic of learning dispositions and modalities with Educational Therapist and Learning-Success™ Coach Mariaemma Willis. Discover how understanding your child’s unique approach to learning can help you avoid common teaching pitfalls and create a more effective and enjoyable homeschool experience. Mariaemma shares practical strategies to tailor your teaching to fit your child’s strengths and preferences, empowering parents to foster confidence and success in their learners. To connect with Mariaemma and her resources, use this link: https://schoolathomemadeeasier.com/   Help keep us funded! Viewers like you funded similar episodes, and other free resources from SPED Homeschool. To learn how you can support the nonprofit work of SPED Homeschool and this broadcast, visit https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ To find out more about SPED Homeschool, visit our website at https://spedhomeschool.com/   NEW to SPED Homeschool and the Homeschool Heroes platform: Consultations and Cognitive Testing. Here is Now What's Available for Your Family through SPED Homeschool: One-on-One Consultations – Get expert guidance in homeschooling a struggling student, curriculum choices, accommodations, behavior strategies, executive function support, high school planning, and more. Our consultants provide personalized recommendations to help you move forward with confidence. https://www.spedhomeschool.com/consultants MindPrint Cognitive Assessment – Finally, a strengths-based approach to education. This easy, at-home cognitive assessment provides unbiased insights into how your child learns best. It helps you understand where they’ll naturally excel and where they may need extra support—allowing you to tailor your teaching effectively with data that tells you exactly how your student learns best! https://www.spedhomeschool.com/store/products/4344/mindprint-student-assessment MindPrint + Consultation Bundle - When you bundle the MindPrint test with a consultation, you unlock a database of MindPrint teaching resources only accessible to our consults, which gives you even more in-depth and personalized homeschooling help to help your student learn successfully. https://www.spedhomeschool.com/store/products/4345/mindprint-student-assessment-plus-consultation You don’t have to struggle through this journey alone. We’re here to give you the tools and confidence you need to create a home learning environment where your child flourishes.   To learn about the other Empowering Homeschool Conversations Co-Hosts and their resources, visit: https://annieyorty.com/ https://www.leilanimelendez.com/ https://elarplearning.com/ https://solimaracademy.com/ Join our mission to empower homeschool families! https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ Join our mission to empower homeschool families!: https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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Reverse Student-Teacher Roles to Increase Learning Outcomes
By Jennifer Duncan Raising and teaching gifted children is an incredible journey—one filled with wonder, discovery, and, at times, real challenges. These children have minds that race ahead, explore deeply, and see the world through a unique lens. As parents and educators, we want to provide the best possible learning environment for them. But what happens when they surpass our own knowledge or think in ways so complex that we struggle to keep up? One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned over the years is that sometimes the best way to teach a gifted child is to allow them to teach you. That might sound counterintuitive—aren’t we supposed to be the teachers? But stepping back and becoming a learner alongside your child can open doors to deeper understanding, strengthen your relationship, and help them develop essential life skills. Here are some powerful ways to embrace this approach. Teaching as a Learning Tool One of the challenges of raising a gifted child is that they often learn quickly and intensely. They may devour knowledge at a pace that’s hard to keep up with, which can leave parents wondering, How do I teach a child who has already surpassed me in some areas? I faced this firsthand when my son, who is profoundly gifted, outpaced me in math and science by the time he was ten. Instead of seeing this as a roadblock, I viewed it as an opportunity. I became transparent with him and told him that if he communicated what he wanted to learn, I would supply him with resources and learn alongside him. Rather than testing his knowledge in traditional ways, I encouraged him to teach me. If he could clearly explain a concept to me, I knew he had mastered it. Over time, this not only deepened his own understanding but also strengthened his ability to communicate complex ideas—a skill that continues to serve him well. Practical At-Home Learning Tips: Let them be the expert. Ask your child to teach you a new concept they’ve learned. Encourage self-directed projects. Support their curiosity by helping them find books, videos, or online courses. Explore together. If they develop an interest in something beyond your expertise, learn alongside them by watching documentaries or taking online classes together. Helping Gifted Children Learn to Communicate with Others Most gifted children realize early on that they think, process, and learn differently from their peers. This awareness can sometimes lead to frustration or isolation. They may struggle to connect with others who don’t share their interests or feel discouraged when their ideas aren’t understood. My son experienced this around age eight or nine when he noticed that his peers didn’t understand why he wasn’t interested in the same games or TV shows. Adults sometimes struggled with his deep, analytical thinking. It was heartbreaking to watch him wrestle with feeling out of place. Many gifted children respond by masking their true selves—holding back their ideas and creativity to fit in. As parents, we can create a safe space where they feel seen, valued, and free to express themselves. One of the most effective ways to do this is by being an engaged and compassionate sounding board. When my son is working on a paper, devotion, or new concept, he talks it through with me. If I get lost, he knows he needs to refine his explanation. If I follow along, he knows he’s on the right track. Practical At-Home Learning Tips: Create a “teaching time” routine. Give your child a chance to explain new concepts to you at dinner or during a family discussion. Use storytelling. Encourage them to write or share their ideas as stories or presentations to help them organize their thoughts. Practice real-world communication. Help them navigate social interactions by role-playing different conversations or situations they may encounter. Expanding Their Learning Beyond the Classroom Gifted children often thrive in nontraditional learning environments. By integrating their passions into everyday life, we can provide them with engaging and meaningful educational experiences. Practical At-Home Learning Tips: Interest-led learning: Let them design their own projects, whether it’s creating a YouTube video on their favorite science topic or writing a book about an ancient civilization. Community involvement: Encourage them to participate in local groups, online forums, or mentorship programs that match their interests. Hands-on experiences: Take learning beyond textbooks by visiting museums, attending workshops, or engaging in real-world problem-solving activities. Embracing the Journey Allowing your gifted child to teach you isn’t about stepping away from your role as a parent or educator—it’s about embracing a partnership in learning. By giving them the freedom to explore, communicate, and grow, you’re not just supporting their intellectual development—you’re nurturing their confidence, creativity, and connection to the world around them. Gifted children have so much to offer. With the right support, encouragement, and understanding, they can thrive—not just in academics, but in life.
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Simple OT Strategies for Homeschooling Families
By Dawn Spence As homeschooling parents, we want to provide the best support for our children, especially when they have unique learning needs. If your child benefits from Occupational Therapy (OT), you may have already seen how valuable it can be for developing sensory integration, fine motor skills, and everyday living skills. But what if insurance doesn’t cover enough sessions—or any at all? The good news is that there are simple, affordable strategies you can implement at home to support your child’s development. Every small step forward matters, and with the right tools, encouragement, and patience, your child can continue to grow in confidence and ability. 1. Special Pencils and Adaptive Tools Some children struggle with gripping pencils correctly or applying the right amount of pressure when writing. Adaptive tools can make a big difference: Golf pencils and broken crayons – Their small size encourages a natural pincer grasp (thumb and index finger hold). "Y" pencils – These uniquely shaped pencils help guide finger placement for a more controlled grip. Pencil weights – Adding a small weight to a pencil can provide needed sensory input and help with muscle control. Tip: Handwriting Without Tears sells small-sized pencils, but you can also find golf pencils at office supply stores or online. 2. DIY Slant Boards for Better Posture and Focus For some children, writing on a flat surface is challenging. A slant board encourages better wrist positioning and can help with visual tracking while reading or writing. Instead of purchasing an expensive board, try this simple DIY solution: Attach a clipboard to a 3-inch binder with Velcro. Use a large sturdy book as an inclined surface. Tip: A slant board can also help stabilize paper, reducing frustration while writing. 3. Cutting Skills with a Smile Scissors can be tricky for children who struggle with fine motor skills. A fun way to reinforce correct finger placement is to draw a smiley face on your child’s thumb—reminding them that the smile should always be facing up. Use spring-loaded or loop scissors if your child needs extra help closing and opening the blades. Try cutting activities with thicker paper or Play-Doh to build hand strength before transitioning to regular paper. Tip: KUMON cutting books provide step-by-step cutting practice with engaging activities. 4. Tweezers for Strengthening the Pincer Grip Fine motor skills are essential for writing, buttoning clothes, and using utensils. Using tweezers or tongs is a fun way to develop hand strength and coordination: Pick up small objects like buttons, beads, or pom-poms using tweezers. Play sorting games where your child moves objects from one bowl to another. Use chopsticks with training grips for extra practice. Tip: "Feed the Animals Fine Motor Games" by Lakeshore Learning makes strengthening hands feel like play. 5. Special Paper for Writing Success Some children struggle with keeping their letters aligned or spacing words correctly. Using specialty paper can provide both tactile and visual cues: Raised-line paper – Gives a subtle boundary that helps with letter formation. Highlighted paper – Color-coded lines guide where letters should be placed. Graph paper – Ideal for children who need help keeping numbers in neat rows during math work. Tip: You can create your own raised-line paper by tracing over lines with glue and letting it dry! 6. Sensory and Movement Breaks to Improve Focus Many children benefit from short movement breaks throughout the day. Try incorporating: Jumping on a trampoline or bouncing on an exercise ball before writing activities. Using a weighted lap pad or compression vest to provide calming sensory input. Offering fidget tools like stress balls or putty during lessons. Tip: Experiment with different sensory strategies to see what helps your child stay engaged. 7. Visual Schedules and Timers for Independence If your child struggles with transitions or staying on task, visual tools can be a game-changer: Use a visual schedule with pictures or words to outline daily tasks. Set a timer to help with time management and reduce anxiety about completing tasks. Try a "First, Then" chart (e.g., "First finish math, then play outside") to provide clear expectations. Tip: Sand timers can be a great alternative to digital timers for kids who benefit from a visual countdown. More Ideas and Resources You are not alone in this journey! There are so many ways to integrate simple OT strategies into your homeschool routine. For additional ideas, check out the Homeschool Heroes Occupational Therapy page for resources, discussion, groups and business that will elevate your homeschool OT goals at home. Above all, remember that progress is progress—no matter how small. Your efforts to support your child at home are making a difference, and you are the best advocate for their needs. Keep going! 
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SImple and Affordable Assistive Technology Solutions for Homeschooling
By Tracy Criswell When parents hear the term assistive technology, they often assume it comes with a hefty price tag. However, that’s not always the case. According to the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), assistive technology is any item, piece of equipment, or product system—whether commercially acquired, modified, or customized—that enhances the functional capabilities of children with disabilities. Assistive technology falls into two categories: low-tech and high-tech. This article focuses primarily on low-tech solutions, but I’ll also touch on high-tech options briefly. What Is Low-Tech Assistive Technology? Low-tech assistive technology refers to simple, inexpensive tools that require little to no training to use. These can be incredibly effective in a homeschool setting. As a homeschooling mom of four—three of whom have ADHD, learning disabilities, sensory processing disorder, and anxiety—I’ve found that low-tech tools can make a big difference in my children’s learning experience. In fact, you may already be using low-tech assistive technology without realizing it! Everyday Low-Tech Assistive Technology in Homeschooling Here are some common low-tech tools that can support your child’s learning: Dry-erase boards and markers – Great for practicing math problems, spelling, or brainstorming ideas. Exercise balls or wiggle seats – Help active learners stay engaged while reading or completing lessons. Large font worksheets – Make reading easier for children with visual processing challenges. Audiobooks – Provide access to literature for struggling readers. Binder as a slant board – Elevates paper for better posture and visibility. Magnetic letters – Perfect for spelling and word-building activities. Stress balls – Offer sensory input for children with anxiety or sensory needs. Sandpaper under writing paper – Helps children who press too hard or need tactile feedback. Pencil grips – Improve handwriting control. Raised lined paper or highlighted paper – Provides visual guidance for writing. Reading guide highlighter strips – Assist with tracking while reading. Highlighter tape – Helps with note-taking. Colored transparencies – Reduce visual strain when reading. Sentence strips – Aid in sentence formation and sequencing. Graph paper for math – Keeps numbers aligned and organized. Kitchen timers – Help children manage time effectively. Visual schedules – Provide structure and predictability. Velcro for folder activities – Supports organization and hands-on learning. These are just a few examples of low-tech assistive tools I’ve used with my children and students. The best part? They are affordable and easy to implement in a homeschool environment. What About High-Tech Assistive Technology? High-tech assistive technology includes more advanced devices with electronic or digital components. These tools often require training and can be more costly. However, they provide essential support for students with specific needs, such as communication or mobility challenges. Examples of high-tech assistive technology include: Augmentative communication devices – Help nonverbal children communicate. Hearing aids – Support children with hearing impairments. Electric wheelchairs – Assist with mobility. Computers and specialized software – Offer text-to-speech, voice recognition, and word prediction tools. Electronic home alarms – Provide accessible alerts for children with hearing or visual impairments. Tablets (iPads, etc.) – Offer a range of accessibility apps and educational tools. How to Access Assistive Technology While low-tech tools are budget-friendly, high-tech devices can sometimes be costly. Fortunately, there are ways to obtain assistive technology at little or no cost: Dual-enrollment programs – Some states provide assistive technology to homeschool students enrolled in public school services. Insurance and Medicare – Check with your provider to see if they cover assistive devices. Assistive technology manufacturers – Some companies offer grants or funding assistance. Local disability organizations – May provide loaner programs or financial aid. Final Thoughts Assistive technology—both low-tech and high-tech—can be a game-changer in homeschooling children with unique learning needs. The key is finding tools that work best for your child’s challenges and strengths. For more ideas, check out the Homeschool Heroes Assistive Technology page for resources, discussions and more creative ways to incorporate assistive technology into your homeschool.