7 Ways to Raise a Lifelong Learner
By Amy Vickrey, MSE
As I wrap up my first year of homeschooling my 6-year-old—soon to be a first grader—I find myself reflecting on all we’ve accomplished. In just an hour or two of focused learning most days, my son has learned to read, mastered simple addition and subtraction, and taken his first steps in writing. Considering that he wasn’t even writing his name when we began, I’m amazed at his progress!
But beyond these milestones, my biggest goal remains the same: instilling in my son a love for learning that will last a lifetime.
The Importance of Lifelong Learning
What does it mean to be a lifelong learner? It means developing a natural curiosity to seek out new information, a desire to keep growing, and the ability to find and evaluate knowledge independently.
Be the Example
The best way to encourage lifelong learning in our children is to model it ourselves. Children learn by example, and when they see us exploring new topics, asking questions, and seeking knowledge, they are more likely to do the same.
Here are some compelling reasons to continue learning as an adult:
Career & Business Success: Ongoing education helps you stay competitive in the workforce.
Health & Well-being: Learning keeps the mind active, reduces stress, and improves overall mental health.
Financial Benefits: Knowledge about finances leads to better money management and increased earning potential.
Social Growth: Engaging in learning opportunities helps build stronger connections with others.
If you’re reading this, chances are you already value lifelong learning! But even as a lifelong learner myself, I still find it challenging to help my child see the bigger picture. So, I focus on equipping him with the tools he needs to develop this mindset.
7 Ways to Raise a Lifelong Learner
1. Encourage a Love for Reading
Reading unlocks the door to endless learning opportunities. Whether through books or digital resources, fostering a love for reading makes learning enjoyable and self-driven. In today’s world, technology can also support this journey—computers and audiobooks make information more accessible than ever.
2. Embrace Mistakes as Learning Opportunities
Mistakes are not failures; they are stepping stones to growth. Teach your child that getting something wrong is part of the learning process. Instead of simply marking an answer incorrect, walk through the mistake together to understand why it was wrong and how to improve.
3. Teach the Skill of Finding Answers
When my son asks a question, I don’t just give him the answer—I show him how to find it. Whether through books, Google searches, or asking experts, teaching kids how to research empowers them to seek out knowledge on their own.
4. Allow Choice in Learning
One of the greatest advantages of homeschooling is the ability to tailor education to a child’s interests. I provide my son with books, games, and materials on topics he enjoys, and I encourage him to explore. We visit the library, talk to librarians, and watch documentaries together. His love for dinosaurs this year has led us on countless learning adventures!
5. Prioritize Play
Play is an essential part of the learning process. It allows children to experiment, problem-solve, and internalize new concepts in a natural way. To learn more about the role of play in education, check out my April blog, Learning Through Play.
6. Teach Goal Setting
Setting goals—no matter how small—helps children take ownership of their learning. Start with simple goals, like writing their name or recognizing letters, and celebrate each achievement. When my son reached his sight word goals, we celebrated with ice cream. Now, he’s reading books independently! For more on goal setting, I recommend The Leader in Me: 7 Habits of Happy Kids.
7. Celebrate Every Success
Celebration fuels motivation. Whether it's mastering a new skill, finishing a book, or solving a tough math problem, recognizing progress makes learning feel rewarding. Small victories build confidence and reinforce the joy of learning.
Keep Learning Together
I hope you enjoy this journey as much as I am! Lifelong learning isn’t just about academics—it’s about fostering curiosity, resilience, and a love for discovery.
For more on lifelong learning, check out these resources:
6 Lifelong Learning Skills
5 Steps to Developing a Lifelong Habit of Learning
10 Simple Ways to Engage in Lifelong Learning
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Happy learning!