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by Peggy Ployhar When I talk with parents about transition planning for high schoolers, one of the first things I recommend is using a solid assessment to evaluate independent living skills. Why? Because the right assessment can help you identify which skills your student needs to focus on—saving you both time and frustration while setting the stage for a smoother post-high school transition. Whether your student is college-bound, heading into a trade, or aiming for supported employment or independent living, having a clear picture of their capabilities helps you make informed, confident decisions about what’s next. Below are my top three recommended assessments to help determine where your student stands and how you can best prepare them for adult life: 1. Casey Life Skills (CLS) Assessment The Casey Life Skills Assessment is a free tool designed for youth ages 14 to 21. It evaluates a wide range of independent living skills including: Maintaining healthy relationships Work and study habits Planning and goal-setting Using community resources Daily living tasks Budgeting and bill payment Computer literacy This assessment typically takes 30–40 minutes to complete, and best of all, the results are available instantly. These results are designed to be used in a strength-based conversation with your teen, helping them take ownership of their growth while setting realistic, personalized goals. Bonus Resource: Casey offers a 60-page resource guide with goal suggestions and helpful links to support your student’s growth. You can find the assessment, guide, and other tools here: Casey Life Skills Toolkit - Casey Family Programs 2. PEATC Life Skills Checklist The PEATC Life Skills Checklist is a practical, 7-page document created by the Parent Educational Advocacy Training Center. It’s tailored for students ages 14–22 and can be a powerful tool for: Parents Homeschool IEP Teams Transition planners The checklist covers key areas of daily living, making it easy to track skill development over time and document progress toward transition goals. Access it here: PEATC Life Skills Checklist #3 – Comprehensive Transition Assessment Resource Page Transition planning isn’t a one-size-fits-all process—each student is different, and using a combination of formal and informal assessments is often the best way to understand what your teen needs to thrive. That’s why this resource page is such a valuable tool. It outlines how to use assessments effectively and provides a variety of downloadable and interactive tools to help IEP teams, families, and homeschool parents get a well-rounded view of the student's current strengths, preferences, and areas for growth. Here’s a snapshot of what you’ll find: Personal Preference Indicators – Collect insights from the student and those who know them best. Indiana Transition Assessment Matrix – A searchable collection of assessments organized by living, learning, and working skills, including Spanish versions. T-Folio – An interactive, free online tool to build job-readiness and self-determination. ELSA Assessment – Evaluates employability and life skills for both families and professionals. Interest Profiler (O*Net & Career OneStop) – Career-matching tools based on a student’s personal interests. Self-Determination Assessments – Tools like the AIR Self-Determination Assessment and The ARC Self-Determination Scale help students identify areas like autonomy, empowerment, and self-realization. Many of these tools can be filled out by the student, parents, educators, or other service providers—helping create a comprehensive profile from multiple perspectives. To explore all these tools and more, visit: Independent Living Postsecondary Goal & Assessment Resources - Transition Coalition   More Tools to Support Your Journey The Zarro Institute on Transition and Self-Determination website is a treasure trove of resources for families with unique learners. From online training modules to customizable transition tools, they offer guidance to help families like yours confidently navigate high school and beyond. Explore the Zarro Institute Taking the Next Step If you’re looking for more help in homeschooling your unique learner through high school, don’t miss our High School Helps Page—that contains a list of resources that will you confidently navigate your way through essential academic and life skills needed to help your teen succeed. Final Thoughts Preparing a student for life after high school is about more than academics—it’s about equipping them with real-world skills, building confidence, and giving them ownership of their future. These assessments can serve as launchpads—giving you clear next steps and your student the structure they need to grow into capable, independent adults. Have you used any of these assessments with your student? What has helped your family the most in planning for independence? Share your experience in the comments or join us on our Empowering Homeschool Conversations podcast to hear more from parents just like you.

If your child is struggling to read despite using a solid phonics curriculum, you’re not alone. In this post, Dr. Jan Bedell, a Master NeuroDevelopmentalist, explains why phonics doesn’t work for every child—at least not at first—and how developing auditory processing skills and using sight word strategies can lead to reading breakthroughs. By Jan Bedell, PhD, Master NeuroDevelopmentalist For decades, the debate over how best to teach reading has raged—sometimes with near-hostile intensity. The pendulum swings between phonics and whole language instruction, but the truth is, no one-size-fits-all method exists. Many children are caught in the middle, struggling as the system leans too far in one direction or the other. If you're a homeschooling parent, there's a good chance you're relying on a phonics-based approach. And why not? Phonics has helped millions of children learn to decode and read. But what happens when phonics doesn’t work—at least not for your child? Maybe you've tried program after program with little success. Maybe phonics worked beautifully for your other children, but this one is stuck on short vowel sounds and can't seem to move forward. If that’s your story, I understand your frustration—because I lived it myself. When Phonics Isn’t Enough Back when I was in elementary school, the whole-word approach (now called sight word reading) was standard. I learned to read that way and went on to college, making the Dean's List. My first teaching job was in a kindergarten class using phonics. I learned phonics along with my students and found it incredibly helpful, especially for decoding unfamiliar words. Later, I used a rigorous phonics curriculum to homeschool both of my daughters. One took off with reading; the other could not get past three-letter words—even though she had memorized all 70 phonograms! I was confused and discouraged. What was I missing? The Missing Piece: Auditory Processing What I discovered changed everything: phonics is an auditory approach to reading. That means your child needs to be able to hear, remember, and process sounds in the correct sequence. This skill—called auditory processing—is essential for phonics success. Children with low auditory processing can’t hold all the pieces of a word in their memory long enough to decode it. Phonics becomes not just ineffective—it becomes painful and discouraging. The good news? Auditory processing can be strengthened with intentional practice. Tip: To find out if low auditory processing is affecting your child’s reading, you can get a free test kit at Brain Sprints. A strong digit span of at least 5 (preferably 6) is usually necessary for phonics to work efficiently. While You Build Processing… Try This Alternative Approach While you're working on strengthening your child’s auditory processing (just two minutes, twice a day!), you can teach reading another way—using sight words and echo reading. This approach has helped many children reclaim their confidence and begin to identify as readers. Here are some steps to get started: Flash Sight Words Introduce high-frequency words by quickly flashing word cards while saying the word out loud. This builds word recognition without requiring auditory decoding. Echo Reading Read a sentence aloud, then have your child repeat it back. This builds fluency and confidence without pressure. It also gives them exposure to sentence structure and vocabulary in a meaningful context. Paired Reading Sit side-by-side and read aloud together, pointing to each word as you go. Gradually encourage your child to read more independently. Read Familiar Books Repeatedly Repetition builds memory and comfort with vocabulary. Children love hearing (and reading) favorite stories again and again! Phonics Can Still Have a Place—Just Not Yet This doesn’t mean phonics is bad or should be tossed out. Far from it! Phonics is still the key to decoding unfamiliar words, especially as reading levels increase. But for children with low auditory processing, timing matters. Once your child’s auditory processing improves, go back to your favorite phonics program. You’ll be amazed at how much more effective it becomes. In the meantime, you’re building a robust sight word vocabulary and giving your child the confidence to keep going. When Neither Phonics Nor Sight Words Work If your child still struggles after trying both approaches, it may be time to investigate other root causes. These could include: Eye tracking or convergence issues Retained reflexes affecting visual or auditory pathways Visual discrimination weaknesses Storage and retrieval problems in the brain’s memory systems The NeuroDevelopmental Approach looks at all these areas and more. If you’re interested in learning how to explore these root causes, search “reading” on the Brain Coach Tips YouTube channel. Final Encouragement Reading is not a race, and it’s certainly not a measure of intelligence. If your child is struggling, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed. It just means there’s a piece of the puzzle yet to be found—and there are tools and support to help you find it.

During the homeschool journey with children who have unique learning needs, it's not uncommon to feel like you're treading water or getting nowhere. Standard educational and developmental milestones may seem out of reach, but deep down, we know our children can and do make progress. Sometimes, it just takes thinking outside the box. Our SPED Homeschool team members shared their personal stories and creative methods for helping their children achieve realistic and meaningful goals. Dawn Spence: Tailoring Goals to Interests and Learning Styles Focus on Strengths and Motivators When setting goals for my children, I begin by identifying their individual talents and interests. My son, for example, thrives with an external motivator. If he knows there’s a reward at the end—like watching the Narnia movie after reading the book—he’s more likely to stay focused and finish. Creative Expression for a Visual Learner My daughter, who has dyslexia and a strong artistic ability, benefits from incorporating creativity into academics. She illustrates vocabulary words and draws out math problems, which allows her to engage in lessons more deeply—even when the content is challenging. Hands-On Learning for Complex Needs My youngest daughter has multiple learning issues. I use hands-on tools like Play-Doh, puzzles, and games to make abstract concepts tangible. I also break larger goals into smaller, more manageable steps. Meeting her where she is makes all the difference. Cammie Arn: Turning Everyday Life Into Learning Opportunities Think Outside the Classroom I’ve learned that learning happens everywhere—especially outside the traditional classroom. Reading museum signs? That’s reading and history. Growing a garden? That’s science, problem-solving, and even culinary skills if you cook with what you grow. Reading a novel? Let the child pick the book—it increases engagement and retention. Maximize Community Resources We love visiting museums and using scavenger hunts to make visits interactive. Many offer sensory-friendly hours and free educator materials. Local Parks and Wildlife agencies are another treasure trove, offering unit studies on everything from conservation to plant ID. Libraries can also surprise you—they often offer public classes in gardening, computers, and more. Tip: Download our free museum guide and checklist to help make your next visit smoother and more educational. Amy Vickrey: Fostering Independence with Gentle Flexibility Start with Structure, Then Allow Freedom My 7-year-old (with autism) and 3-year-old (with developmental delays) both benefit from a structured, yet flexible, environment. Visuals like checklists and labeled bins help guide them. I also give them freedom to make small decisions—like organizing their own supplies—to build ownership. Motivation Through Encouragement and Rewards I praise their efforts often and keep corrections light. I use rewards to build habits, starting with frequent encouragement and slowly increasing expectations. For bigger behavior issues (like leaving dirty socks around!), I introduced a money system. My son earned money for good choices and paid a "fine" for negative ones. Once he met his goal—buying a movie—the behavior improved and the system faded away naturally. Peggy Ployhar: Individualized Approaches for Unique Challenges Slow and Steady for Literacy Growth My oldest son struggled with reading and writing, so we took a “slow and steady” approach using IEW curriculum. By trusting the process and focusing on small wins, he gradually built confidence and skill. I share more in my article Slow and Steady: The Key to Homeschooling Success. Reframing Math for Better Comprehension My middle son had difficulty with the abstract nature of math. I tailored word problems using language he understood—replacing unfamiliar contexts with ones involving superheroes or favorite topics. We also used the hands-on Patty Paper curriculum for geometry, then shifted to practical math (like stewardship and logic) for high school. Unstructured Creativity for Artistic Growth With my youngest, I faced the challenge of nurturing her art skills without “teaching” them directly. She created an illustrated magazine using a writing curriculum that gave her content and deadlines while leaving the creative direction up to her. The result was a polished, original project that reflected both her artistic and academic growth. Tracy Glockle: Empowering Learners Through Choice and Control Letting Go to Reduce Stress Last summer, I was struggling to motivate my daughter, who has anxiety around learning. I read Self-Reg by Dr. Stuart Shanker, which changed everything. By giving her more control over her school schedule—even if it meant slower progress—I saw her stress melt away and motivation increase. Creative Alternatives to Traditional Writing Writing was a big stressor, so I allowed her to create display boards on topics she loved instead of writing papers. She ended up writing more—strong, detailed paragraphs—without anxiety. Giving her autonomy made all the difference in how she approached learning. Every Child, Every Goal, A Unique Path Our children, with their wide range of abilities, also have incredible gifts and dreams. As parents and educators, our role is to meet them where they are and guide them forward creatively, patiently, and persistently. With a few outside-the-box strategies, realistic expectations, and lots of love, we can help them achieve their goals—and celebrate every step along the way.

In this episode of Empowering Homeschool Conversations, host Peggy Ployhar is joined by Stephanie Buckwalter, a fellow co-host, experienced homeschooling mom, and mentor with over 20 years of expertise in helping families navigate unique learning challenges. Stephanie has developed innovative approaches, including the ELARP™ Method and Spell As U Go™ curriculum, designed specifically for students who struggle with communication or are behind grade level. Together, Peggy and Stephanie discuss effective strategies for teaching children with learning and communication barriers. This episode will equip you with practical tools to create a customized, effective, and encouraging learning experience at home for a nonverbal child. To connect with Stephanie and her resources, visit: Adapted Home Education: https://adaptedhomeed.com/ or Art of Special Needs Parenting: https://artofspecialneedsparenting.com/ Viewers like you funded similar episodes, and other free resources from SPED Homeschool. To learn how you can support the nonprofit work of SPED Homeschool and this broadcast, visit https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ NEW to SPED Homeschool and the Homeschool Heroes platform: Consultations and Cognitive Testing. Here is Now What's Available for Your Family through SPED Homeschool: One-on-One Consultations – Get expert guidance in homeschooling a struggling student, curriculum choices, accommodations, behavior strategies, executive function support, high school planning, and more. Our consultants provide personalized recommendations to help you move forward with confidence. https://www.spedhomeschool.com/consultants MindPrint Cognitive Assessment – Finally, a strengths-based approach to education. This easy, at-home cognitive assessment provides unbiased insights into how your child learns best. It helps you understand where they’ll naturally excel and where they may need extra support—allowing you to tailor your teaching effectively with data that tells you exactly how your student learns best! https://www.spedhomeschool.com/store/products/4344/mindprint-student-assessment MindPrint + Consultation Bundle - When you bundle the MindPrint test with a consultation, you unlock a database of MindPrint teaching resources only accessible to our consults, which gives you even more in-depth and personalized homeschooling help to help your student learn successfully. https://www.spedhomeschool.com/store/products/4345/mindprint-student-assessment-plus-consultation You don’t have to struggle through this journey alone. We’re here to give you the tools and confidence you need to create a home learning environment where your child flourishes. To find out more about SPED Homeschool, visit our website at https://spedhomeschool.com/ To learn about the other Empowering Homeschool Conversations Co-Hosts and their resources, visit: https://annieyorty.com/ https://www.leilanimelendez.com/ https://adaptedhomeed.com/ https://solimaracademy.com/ Join our mission to empower homeschool families!: https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

By Penny Rogers In the whirlwind of therapies, homeschooling, and daily responsibilities, teaching life skills often takes a backseat. It's understandable—sometimes it's simply quicker and less stressful to do tasks ourselves. However, equipping our children with essential life skills not only ensures their safety but also instills confidence and a sense of purpose.​ The Importance of Life Skills In our journey with Logan, we've come to understand that the more he can care for himself, the safer and more independent he becomes. While we are fortunate that Logan can live at home during his adult life, there will come a time when we may not be there to support him. Whether he lives with his sister or in a group home, the life skills he masters now will reduce his dependence on others and protect him from potential exploitation. Moreover, these skills will ease the responsibilities of future caregivers.​ Building Confidence Through Responsibility Teaching life skills isn't solely about future preparedness; it's about boosting our children's confidence today. As they grow, children naturally desire to contribute and care for themselves. This desire doesn't diminish with special needs. Allowing them to take charge of their care provides them with a sense of purpose and self-worth.​ Practical Steps to Teach Life Skills Begin with one skill at a time to avoid overwhelming both yourself and your child:​ Teach your daughter how to brush her hair.​ Guide your son in brushing his teeth.​ Help teenagers learn to shave or manage menstrual hygiene.​ Starting with basic life skills can significantly transform your family's dynamics.​ Utilizing Resources: Skill Trek Curriculum One resource we've found invaluable is the Skill Trek life skills curriculum. With over 500 skills tailored to developmental levels rather than chronological age, it offers a structured approach to teaching. The curriculum provides step-by-step instructions and videos, making it easier for parents to teach and for children to learn. It's been a game-changer in our household, ensuring that life skills don't get sidelined amidst other responsibilities. ​ Final Thoughts Regardless of the method, the crucial part is to teach life skills. The long-term benefits far outweigh the initial effort. By investing time now, we're paving the way for our children's independence and confidence in the future.​

By Peggy Ployhar I wish I could say that throughout my homeschooling years, I consistently followed the advice we often hear: "Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others." Unfortunately, that wasn't always the case. At one point, I was so consumed with trying to do it all—homeschooling, managing a hobby farm, caring for my family, and fostering three preschoolers—that I neglected my own needs to the extent that I was surviving on just two hours of sleep a night. This led to severe adrenal fatigue and a near mental breakdown, forcing me to pause and reevaluate my approach to life and homeschooling. Start with These Two Steps Cut Back: It's essential to recognize and eliminate tasks that aren't immediate necessities. During chaotic times, distinguishing between "extras" and "essentials" can be challenging. I've learned to regularly assess my schedule, identify non-essential activities, and remove them. This practice helps prevent burnout and ensures that my energy is directed toward what truly matters. Additionally, I've become more discerning about commitments, ensuring they align with my family's priorities. Ask for Help: Seeking assistance can be daunting, especially when resources are limited or specialized care is required. In our small town, finding support for children with behavioral and trauma-related challenges was particularly tough. However, reaching out, even in small ways, can make a significant difference. Whether it's connecting with other homeschooling families, exploring online resources, or seeking professional guidance, remember that you don't have to navigate this journey alone. Transform What's Left Even after cutting back and seeking help, self-care might still seem out of reach. However, by adopting a multi-dimensional approach, we can integrate self-care into our daily routines: Exercise Together: Instead of watching from the sidelines, join your children in physical activities. Whether it's martial arts, dance, or aerial silks (a personal favorite of mine and my daughter), shared physical pursuits can enhance both fitness and family bonds. Shared Reading: Incorporate books that interest both you and your children into your read-aloud sessions. Engaging stories can captivate the entire family and provide moments of connection and relaxation. Combine Hobbies and Learning: Integrate your passions into homeschooling. For instance, my venture into soap-making not only became a creative outlet for me but also sparked my son's interest, leading him to start his own soap business. Culinary Exploration: Turn meal preparation into a collaborative learning experience. Challenge your children with cooking tasks, explore new recipes together, or even host friendly cooking competitions. This not only teaches valuable life skills but also fosters healthier eating habits. Spa Moments at Home: Introduce simple pampering routines, like foot soaks or back massages, into your family time. These activities promote relaxation and teach children about the importance of self-care and appropriate touch. Spiritual Growth Together: Share your spiritual practices with your children. Instead of seeking solitude for prayer or study, involve them in these moments. Hosting group Bible studies or devotional sessions can strengthen both faith and family ties. Regular Check-Ins Establish periodic evaluations of your schedule and well-being. Collaborate with fellow homeschooling parents to share insights, offer support, and hold each other accountable. By continuously assessing and adjusting, you ensure that self-care remains a priority. Remember: You Are Worth It Prioritizing self-care isn't a luxury—it's a necessity. By taking care of yourself, you equip yourself to better care for your family. Embrace the journey, make intentional choices, and recognize that nurturing yourself is an integral part of nurturing your children.

By Peggy Ployhar Teaching a child to hike mirrors the broader journeys of homeschooling and parenting. While hiking, like education and child-rearing, involves technical instruction, we must not overlook the profound value of the journey itself. The true reward of homeschooling lies more in walking alongside our children daily than in mastering the mechanics alone. A Family That Hikes Together Our family's hiking adventures began even before our children were born. Both my husband and I grew up in hiking families, and shortly after each of our children arrived, we introduced them to the trails as a rite of passage. Initially, our infants rode snugly in front-packs. As they grew, they transitioned to facing outward, and eventually to sturdy hiking backpacks. However, we didn't keep them in carriers indefinitely. We observed each child's readiness to walk, noting their balance on uneven terrain and resilience after falls. Our eldest was a natural trailblazer, sturdy and eager to walk early on. His younger brother, however, was more cautious, uncomfortable with uneven surfaces and transitions. Thankfully, his lighter frame made extended carrying manageable. Recognizing each child's unique readiness, we gradually introduced them to walking portions of the trail, alternating with riding. Over time, we phased out the backpack, offering our shoulders for occasional rests, until they could confidently complete hikes on their own. Hiking Milestones Achieving independent walking was just the beginning. As our children matured, we imparted deeper lessons during our hikes: Wise Planning: Preparing adequately for the trail—considering individual needs and trail conditions—ensures a smoother journey and minimizes unexpected challenges. Consideration for Others: Respecting fellow hikers by yielding the path and leaving no trace fosters a shared appreciation for nature. Awareness of Dangers: Recognizing signs of wildlife, understanding when to make noise or stay silent, and knowing how to react to storms are crucial safety skills. Savoring the Journey: Encouraging moments to observe wildlife, inhale floral scents, and marvel at natural beauty enriches the hiking experience. Building Relationships: Engaging in conversations or shared silences on the trail strengthens familial and social bonds. Perseverance: Committing to complete the hike, barring safety concerns, instills determination to overcome challenging terrains. The Greatest Benefit of the Journey Why share these experiences? Because over countless hikes—from gentle half-mile strolls to arduous treks into and out of the Grand Canyon—we've found that teaching our children to hike parallels our 17 years of homeschooling and 22 years of parenting. Step by step, we've guided our children not only in hiking but in navigating life's paths. Even now, at ages 22, 20, and 14, they continue to "hike" alongside us, seeking guidance as they follow the trails God has set before them. Their desire for our continued companionship through life's ups and downs is the greatest reward of our homeschooling journey. Initially, our children relied on us for everything. Teaching them life's mechanics was just the start. We're still imparting knowledge as they traverse their own paths. Similarly, in homeschooling and parenting, we teach foundational skills, but if we cease walking beside them afterward, we miss out on the deepening relationships that are the true treasures of the journey. The Path Ahead As you reflect on your homeschooling and parenting journey, and look forward to the lessons yet to be taught, remember: there's always enough path and time for necessary teachings, provided you plan wisely and remain steadfast. Focus on imparting technical lessons that build mastery, while allowing time for integration. Encourage enjoyment of the journey, cultivation of relationships, awareness of potential dangers, and understanding of the impact God desires through them. Thankfully, God provides both the trail and a continuous stream of supplies. By following His guidance daily, we stay on course, and our relationships with our children grow stronger and more beautiful as we walk this shared journey. We at SPED Homeschool are grateful to accompany you on this path. We'd love for you to share snapshots of your homeschooling journey. Feel free to submit a story that showcase your unique and beautiful homeschool experience. By sharing, we not only gain deeper insights into each other's paths but also help others understand what homeschooling looks like when families strive to help their children succeed beyond their struggles.

Parenting and homeschooling come with unique challenges—especially when you’re a parent with ADHD. In this episode of Empowering Homeschool Conversations, homeschooling moms with ADHD, offering wisdom, strength, and understanding for families navigating a similar path. Join us as we open up about the lessons they’ve learned over the years in life, homeschooling, and motherhood. They’ll discuss practical strategies for staying organized, managing expectations, and embracing grace in the midst of struggles. Whether you’re a parent with ADHD or supporting a loved one on this journey, this episode will provide encouragement and real-life insights to help you homeschool with confidence. Tune in for an honest, hope-filled conversation that reminds us all: You are not alone, and you can create a thriving homeschool environment—even with ADHD! To connect with Leilani visit: https://www.leilanimelendez.com/ Viewers like you funded similar episodes, and other free resources from SPED Homeschool. To learn how you can support the nonprofit work of SPED Homeschool and this broadcast, visit https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ NEW to SPED Homeschool and the Homeschool Heroes platform: Consultations and Cognitive Testing. Here is Now What's Available for Your Family through SPED Homeschool: One-on-One Consultations – Get expert guidance in homeschooling a struggling student, curriculum choices, accommodations, behavior strategies, executive function support, high school planning, and more. Our consultants provide personalized recommendations to help you move forward with confidence. https://www.spedhomeschool.com/consultants  MindPrint Cognitive Assessment – Finally, a strengths-based approach to education. This easy, at-home cognitive assessment provides unbiased insights into how your child learns best. It helps you understand where they’ll naturally excel and where they may need extra support—allowing you to tailor your teaching effectively with data that tells you exactly how your student learns best! https://www.spedhomeschool.com/store/products/4344/mindprint-student-assessment MindPrint + Consultation Bundle - When you bundle the MindPrint test with a consultation, you unlock a database of MindPrint teaching resources only accessible to our consults, which gives you even more in-depth and personalized homeschooling help to help your student learn successfully. https://www.spedhomeschool.com/store/products/4345/mindprint-student-assessment-plus-consultation You don’t have to struggle through this journey alone. We’re here to give you the tools and confidence you need to create a home learning environment where your child flourishes. To find out more about SPED Homeschool, visit our website at https://spedhomeschool.com/ To learn about the other Empowering Homeschool Conversations Co-Hosts and their resources, visit:  https://annieyorty.com/ https://www.leilanimelendez.com/ https://adaptedhomeed.com/ https://solimaracademy.com/

By Amy Vickrey, MSE Some children seem to learn new skills quickly and effortlessly, almost as if they were born knowing them. For other children—especially those with unique learning needs—it’s not so easy. As parents, we push and teach and encourage, and eventually, they might accomplish one step on their own. It can be exhausting! So how do we help our kids develop independence? The key lies in creating routines and gradually teaching each step of the process. Strategies for Teaching Independence in Your Homeschool 1. Break It Down Think about each step in the routine or task you want your child to do and teach one step at a time. By the time you get to the last step, they should be able to complete the task independently. For example, when teaching your child to put away laundry, start with just putting socks in a drawer. Once that becomes a habit, add another category of clothing. 2. Keep It Simple If you want your child to succeed, start with small, manageable tasks. Instead of expecting them to clean their entire room, have them start by putting just the forks away. Gradually increase the responsibility as they grow in confidence. 3. Reward Progress Use positive reinforcement to motivate your child. Start with big rewards for small progress, then slowly increase expectations while decreasing the reward. Eventually, the task will become a habit, and external rewards will no longer be needed. 4. Give It Time Don’t rush the process. Teaching all the steps at once can be overwhelming and may lead to frustration. Instead, focus on mastering one step before introducing the next. Your child may need extra time to internalize each step, and that’s okay! 5. Use Visual Supports Checklists and visual schedules are powerful tools, especially for children who are not yet reading. Walk through the checklist with your child at first. As they gain confidence, encourage them to check their routine on their own. Keep checklists visible—in the bathroom, on doors, in workspaces—to serve as gentle reminders. 6. Incorporate Life Skills into Homeschooling Teaching independence isn’t just about academics. Incorporate therapy, chores, and self-care tasks as part of your homeschool routine. Folding laundry, setting the table, or sorting silverware can double as lessons in math, motor skills, and responsibility. 7. Make It Adaptable As your child grows, so will their routines. Using sheet protectors and wet erase markers (or dry erase crayons) allows you to modify checklists as needed without reprinting them. Laminated schedules work well too. Real-Life Examples of Teaching Independence Recently, I needed my 7-year-old, who has autism, to be more independent. I wanted him to take on responsibilities like putting away laundry and dishes, dressing himself, and following a morning and bedtime routine. Each of these responsibilities involved a series of smaller skills that had to be explicitly taught. For example, when putting away laundry, I first helped him sort his clothes into categories (underwear, socks, shirts, etc.). I labeled his drawers to help him recognize where each item belonged. Over time, I transitioned to handing him sorted piles and letting him put them away on his own. Now, he can even put away his brother’s clothes (though I still do the sorting). For his morning and evening routines, I created checklists outlining each step. Initially, he followed the checklist in a set order, but as he mastered each step, I introduced flexibility—sometimes changing the order of tasks to help him adapt. I also made a visual thermometer guide to help him choose weather-appropriate clothing each day. Now, I’m starting the process with my 3-year-old. He helps by placing his sorted clothes in the correct drawers and learning to sort silverware. It’s a slow process, but I know that the time I invest now will pay off later. Final Thoughts: Celebrate the Small Wins Teaching independence takes patience, persistence, and creativity. Start where your child is developmentally, introduce one step at a time, and gradually build upon each success. Some days will feel like progress, while others may feel like setbacks—but each step forward is a victory. Before you know it, your child will be confidently completing tasks on their own, and you’ll see just how far they’ve come. You’ve got this, and so does your child!

By Shannon Ramiro As the school year nears its end, many of us start to wonder: Could I have done better? How do we make the most of what’s left of the year? What should I change for next year? The good news? You still have time to make adjustments and finish strong. And the bad news? There is none! Wondering if you’ve done enough for your homeschool is completely normal—especially for parents of children with unique learning needs. How to Know You’ve Done Enough for Your Homeschool Have you done any of the following? Started the school year choosing curriculum (or multiple curricula) based on what you researched or were told would be best for your child’s unique needs? Created a study or learning schedule and believed you’d be able to stick to it consistently? Switched gears mid-year (or multiple times) because the original plan wasn’t working? Felt overwhelmed or thought about quitting at some point because homeschooling was just too much? If you answered “yes” to any—or all—of these, you’re not alone. And more importantly, it’s okay. Homeschooling is a marathon, not a sprint. It’s about fostering lifelong learning, not cramming everything into an arbitrary timeline. Give yourself grace. You are doing the best you can with the knowledge and resources you have at any given moment. Even parents of neurotypical children question themselves, so self-doubt is a universal part of the parenting journey. How to Reset and Finish the Year Strong Once you recognize that feelings of overwhelm are normal, you can move forward with fresh energy. Here are a few ways to reset your homeschool mindset and finish the year feeling encouraged and accomplished: Lean Into Creativity – If your state has minimal homeschooling regulations, take advantage of the freedom to integrate creativity. Let your child’s interests lead the way. If they love animals, plan a unit study on wildlife. If they’re fascinated by space, explore astronomy through documentaries and hands-on projects. Loosen Up the Schedule – Focus on meaningful learning rather than rigid daily lesson plans. Celebrate the small wins. If burnout is creeping in, take a step back and make learning fun again. Take Learning Outside – Spring is the perfect time to explore nature-based learning. Observe seasonal changes, visit a local nature preserve, or do some hands-on science experiments outdoors. Approach Testing with a Growth Mindset – If your state requires standardized testing, teach test-taking strategies (e.g., how to make an educated guess, when to skip a question, etc.). Most importantly, remind your child that test scores are simply a snapshot of what they know at that moment—not a measure of their intelligence or potential. Reflect and Adjust for Next Year – Consider what worked and what didn’t. Can successful strategies help guide future curriculum choices? Adjusting your approach based on what best supports your child’s learning style is a strength, not a failure. Remember: Homeschooling Is Not One-Size-Fits-All Many comprehensive, all-in-one curricula assume children learn at the same pace and in the same way. But our kids are unique. Some subjects may come easily, while others take more time. The beauty of homeschooling is that you can customize learning to fit your child’s needs—without being confined to a rigid school calendar. And guess what? You are doing an incredible job. Learning is happening, even on the days it feels messy. Your child is growing, even when progress seems slow. You are the exact parent your child needs. So take a deep breath, give yourself grace, and know that you are enough. You’ve Got This! Children are naturally curious and eager to learn. Letting them take the lead sometimes might just reignite your passion for homeschooling. You are more capable than you realize, and this journey is one of love, patience, and growth—for both you and your child.

By Peggy Ployhar Beyond Standardized Testing: Navigating Next Steps Did you know a student does not need to take the ACT or SAT in order to receive a degree from a 4-year university? For students like my oldest, who struggles with anxiety, this fact removed a large amount of stress when he realized his calling into a profession that would require a 4-year degree. The ACT and SAT are placement tests often used by universities to determine freshman placement or by scholarship organizations to award funding. However, if your student is not looking to attend a university immediately after high school or compete for academic scholarships, these tests may not be worth the time, energy, or stress they would impose. Navigating College Admission without the ACT/SAT Choosing a 4-year university route without taking a stressful entrance exam does not eliminate testing altogether. If your student enrolls in a community college before transferring to a 4-year university, they will usually be required to take a placement evaluation. Each community college has different regulations regarding these enrollment tests, but most offer flexible testing conditions, such as untimed exams, multi-day testing windows, and opportunities for retests without penalty. Understanding Placement Tests The most commonly used community college placement test is the Accuplacer Test, but some schools use state-standardized placement exams or their own assessments. It is essential to research your local community college's specific testing requirements. Setting up a meeting with an academic advisor can help clarify admission expectations and course prerequisites. Even if your student does not pass the placement test, they are not barred from enrolling in community college. Students demonstrating competence in certain subjects may take college-credit courses, while those needing additional support may enroll in remedial, non-credit courses. Passing these remedial courses allows students to progress into for-credit coursework. Additionally, most community colleges provide tutoring services and accommodations for students with learning differences. If your student has not yet been formally diagnosed with a learning disability but struggles academically, these support services may help identify areas where assistance is needed. Transitioning from Community College to a 4-Year University Transferring from a community college to a 4-year university involves meeting specific requirements. These vary by institution but typically include: A minimum GPA requirement Completion of transferable general education courses Meeting prerequisites for the intended major Unlike traditional high school applicants, transfer students are not required to submit ACT or SAT scores. Universities assess transfer applicants based on their community college coursework and overall academic performance. For my son, who graduated from the University of Houston with a degree in Biomedical Engineering, taking his education one step at a time has been a more successful approach. This pathway allowed him to build confidence, adjust to college expectations, and stay on track toward his goal. He is now living on this own, earning a great income, and flourishing beyond what we had ever thought possible for him during his difficult homeschooling year. Alternative Paths Beyond College Not every unique learner will choose the traditional college route, and that’s okay. Other options for post-high school success include: Trade Schools & Apprenticeships: Many hands-on learners excel in fields such as carpentry, plumbing, electrical work, and computer programming through specialized training programs. Certifications & Online Courses: Fields like IT, graphic design, and healthcare offer certification programs that equip students with career-ready skills without requiring a degree. Entrepreneurship & Self-Employment: Homeschoolers often develop strong independent learning skills, making entrepreneurship a viable option. Gap Year & Life Skills Development: A structured gap year focusing on internships, volunteer work, or travel can help students explore their interests before committing to a long-term educational path. Final Thoughts If your child struggles academically but feels called to a career requiring further education, do not let standardized testing stand in the way. Whether through community college, vocational training, or another alternative path, there are many ways to prepare your unique homeschool learner for success beyond high school. To find more resources on homeschooling through high school, visit our Freebies page to find other high school resources.

In this episode of Empowering Homeschool Conversations, host Peggy Ployhar sits down with Jack Hughes, an expert in online safety, to provide parents with an insider's guide to protecting their kids in the digital world.   As an 18-year-old who has grown up navigating the internet, Jack shares simple, effective strategies for setting up parental controls and staying ahead of the latest digital risks. With firsthand knowledge of the loopholes kids use to bypass restrictions, this episode offers practical, straightforward advice to help parents safeguard their children online without feeling overwhelmed. Tune in for expert tips and the tools you need to protect your family in today’s connected world.   To connect with Jack and his resources, visit: https://parenttech.support/ and https://www.youtube.com/@UCEjN6zckfsvc_I9eqym3NkA Subscribe to Jack's Newsletter: https://parenttech.support/work-with-jack/#Newsletter   Viewers like you funded similar episodes, and other free resources from SPED Homeschool. To learn how you can support the nonprofit work of SPED Homeschool and this broadcast, visit https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/   NEW to SPED Homeschool and the Homeschool Heroes platform: Consultations and Cognitive Testing. Here is Now What's Available for Your Family through SPED Homeschool: One-on-One Consultations – Get expert guidance in homeschooling a struggling student, curriculum choices, accommodations, behavior strategies, executive function support, high school planning, and more. Our consultants provide personalized recommendations to help you move forward with confidence. https://www.spedhomeschool.com/consultants MindPrint Cognitive Assessment – Finally, a strengths-based approach to education. This easy, at-home cognitive assessment provides unbiased insights into how your child learns best. It helps you understand where they’ll naturally excel and where they may need extra support—allowing you to tailor your teaching effectively with data that tells you exactly how your student learns best! https://www.spedhomeschool.com/store/products/4344/mindprint-student-assessment MindPrint + Consultation Bundle - When you bundle the MindPrint test with a consultation, you unlock a database of MindPrint teaching resources only accessible to our consults, which gives you even more in-depth and personalized homeschooling help to help your student learn successfully. https://www.spedhomeschool.com/store/products/4345/mindprint-student-assessment-plus-consultation You don’t have to struggle through this journey alone. We’re here to give you the tools and confidence you need to create a home learning environment where your child flourishes.   To find out more about SPED Homeschool, visit our website at https://spedhomeschool.com/   To learn about the other Empowering Homeschool Conversations Co-Hosts and their resources, visit: https://annieyorty.com/ https://www.leilanimelendez.com/ https://adaptedhomeed.com/ https://solimaracademy.com/ Join our mission to empower homeschool families!: https://spedhomeschool.com/donate/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.